Have you ever wondered what kind of lover you are in a relationship. Whether you are the romantic type, the obsessive one or just a plain nice one who though people like you very much, whenever they meet with someone else they leave you for them? There are a few characteristics that we all have that define the kind of people we are and after reading this you will leave here knowing what kind of lover you are to your loved one. There are some people who give more in a relationship more than their partners. If you find yourself making time for your partner whenever they call, you are always looking out for them and lending a hand whenever you feel they need your help then you are a giver. However, this character trait should not be encourage too much. If your partner is not giving as much as you in the relationship maybe it is time you stop giving and consider your own feeling and wants before theirs.

If you want to spend a lot of time with your partner and every time you are not with them you feel bad then you are obsessive and possessive lover. This cannot be good in a relationship. This is because what you will be doing to your partner is damage. Some people would love to spend some time alone and this does not mean they do not love you, they do. Let them spend time alone, actually some time alone from a relationship can give you better results in a relationship than spending too much time together. According to Schwartz a sociology professor at the university of Washington in Seattle, when you spend too much time together with your partner you might end up driving your partner crazy.

There are still some people who never stay long in a relationship. To them it was all about the thrill in the chase and not the relationship that gives them the kick. If you are the kind of person that gets tired of staying in one relationship for a long time then you are a player. This should not scare you though because according to Schwartz you can still work around it. Get you and your date busy. Do not settle to a routine kind of life, this will only push you to cheat on your partner which you might not be intending to do.

Are you the kind of person who is into making sure you go by the book and everything should be done in a perfect manner in a relationship? Then you are the strict lover. You should loosen up a little. Remember life is about having fun and you should try as much as possible to get out of your strict routine. Allow your partner to make some mistakes, do not expect them to be perfect for you, let them be themselves and love them for who they really are. You should also not expect them to be you because in a way you want them to be you to go with the standards that you define to be perfect or good.