Everybody flirts, yes even the married ones. Just because you got married it doesn’t mean you should lock the keys of the flirting and throw them in a deep well never to be found again. In fact this is when flirting becomes even more interesting. Get out of the house, flirt at every chance you get. For those people who look for adventure this should be the greatest adventure ever. The only rule about flirting when you are married is not to be caught doing it especially if your partner did not know you were doing it. You do not want a divorce file sent to you because your husband or wife caught you flirting and they got so hurt they could barely look at you again. Flirting when married is also a nice way of knowing if you are still desirable to other people and not only your husband or wife alone.

Just like flirting that is carried out by people who are not attached to anyone, flirting when married entail almost the same things. The only difference is that you have to be careful not to fall in love with this person. This is because for single people, they mostly flirt for fun and at the same time to try and find themselves potential candidate they could settle down with in future. When you are married be careful not to lead the person on in such a way to make him or her think you are available for something more than flirting later yet you are not. There is a certain level you should not pass when you are married and it comes to flirting.

If you are flirting when married make sure you can stop just in time if you see the need to stop and it is threatening your relationship with your husband or wife. If you find that you cannot stop flirting with a person you had better seek help. That is because you will be in much trouble if you can not stop and your partner finds out that you have such a problem. Though people who flirt love their partners, the partners might not think that they love them enough and perhaps the reason for their flirting. So be careful while flirting and do not do it when your husband or wife is fully watching you and you know they do not like it. It is not good at all.

Finally if you are flirting when married respect the other person enough not to do things they do not approve. Flirting can be a very good thing but it can also be a very bad thing. This is because when married people flirt they bring back a lot of good things in their relationship. As long as the two people who are married are flirting and all of them accept that their partner is only doing it for fun and not to hurt them, it is a safe thing to do. You might even come to appreciate and love each other more. Make sure before you start flirting with any one that your partner is fine with it and that you are not jeopardizing your relationship with him or her. Go ahead, have fun flirting while married. It certainly is not cheating.