Breakups hurt a lot. You may have been looking for ways on how to make your ex-girlfriend want you back. If you have spent a lifetime of bliss and happiness with your girlfriend, naturally, you would want to preserve such happiness till eternity. But as the saying goes, some good things never last. But then again, why shouldn’t they?

After the breakup, check yourself for signs of depression. You may be neglecting some meals already. Or your appearance may become shaggy and unkempt, and worse, you might find yourself staring at nothing for minutes at a time. You might also suffer from sleepless nights over your breakup. If this is the case, you might need the help of your friends or a professional counselor. If you have the inner strength to brave adversity and difficulties in life, it does not have to come to that. You may need time to indulge your pain for a period of time and then move on.

Brush yourself up and improve your appearance. You wouldn’t want your ex to feel that you are dejected and suddenly out of touch with reality. If you also become a slob, your girlfriend will definitely not want you back. Deliberate efforts should be done in order for your appearance not to degenerate. You see, some guys tend to forget to groom up and maintain their good appearance after the breakup because they feel that if their ex girlfriends see them in such a state, they would go back. Sadly, such guys are badly mistaken.

The next step to make your ex girlfriend want you back is by improving yourself. When she sees that you are not daunted by emotional stress and that you are willing to improve for the better, she would be able to start noticing you again. When you do something good, your confidence increases every time you do it and before long, you can be a good and attractive man in the eyes of your girlfriend again. When you also hold on to your passions in life and to your ambitions, your ex will also see that you are a driven man and is worth going back to.

Go out and learn about a lot of things. Improve your skills and your talents. This way, you open your world to exciting opportunities. Along the way, your ex will be able to learn that you have improved. The truth is, you can't make her to come back to you. She must make the decision whether to come back or not on her own.

If there is still one silver of hope, you should not destroy that hope. So, you start by obliging her wishes by not pushing her for a response. By letting her know that you are someone who is patient and caring, you have better chance to make your ex girlfriend want you back.