If your reading this because you're thinking, Give me advices that can save my marriage today! Than this might be what you need.

The intention with this is to provide you with some save a marriage advisees and hopefully it will aid you in your search to repair your marriage and get your relationship back to where it should be.

Of course I'm not sure if you're In a marriage crisis or if your reading this "save marriage advice" to be ready for what ever, if your currently "in a marriage crisis" you might want to know about something that many frustrated people do with horrible consequences.

Do not plead, do not beg your way to saving your marriage it might be that your currently thinking, what else can I do, you don't know me or my spouse! You're gone have to trust your own perception of this one, you're the one who do know your spouse, and you know all about your marriage and why your reading this article. But basically, this is some of the things that can happen if one begs there way to fixing the marriage.

Your spouse might not respect you anymore after you beg. You might get them to feel like they are in control. You know, some people out there (specially men) feels so insecure that a situation like that can have them do stupid things just to feel powerful.

They can also feel guild as you beg (specially women) and decide to accept your pleads and it might even turn out good, what also can happen out of that is that the spouse might feel even more depressed than before, feel no respect what so ever for the beggar, is way to nice to be cruel when your pleading but inside they feel can perceive it as they're prisoner to guilt.

Witch of course will not do any more good to a relationship as he or she eventually will pull there stuff together and just leave. They might also decide to stay as a very depressed prisoner with to much conscience. Probably the most serious way to deal with this to keep your marriage hole would be to act as an adult and really discuss the situation with your spouse, and don't be ridicules talking about old memories (unless you have been married for a long time), don't attempt to smooth talk them with all the awesome thing your about to do for them, there are few out there who likes being manipulated (at lest not in that transparent manner)

but ask questions instead and really activate your curiosity. Demonstrate sincerity and ask, What do you really what?

What are the thing that you feel like your missing in our marriage?

If I where to ask you, If something changed in our relationship that really makes you feel absolutely amazing, If for some reason, you and me began to feel an incredible connection with each other, more powerful than ever before and as we are sitting there right now, looking each other in the eyes, feeling so incredibly connected. What can we say about the wonderful experience that's taking place. What would have to change in our marriage for us to feel this way right now?

Ask for answers that would require your spouse to remember and experience feeling the two of you use to feel and ask with sincerity. Some relationships out there don't last because they feel to little for each other, do to little with each other and cant remember how they use to feel for there spouse.

Keep that in mind, that's what I would like to be reminded of if I where to save my marriage today.