You may be filled with unbelief, but there are specific words to be used to get your Ex to return your text message, IM, phone calls or emails. If your words are used correctly they will mesmerizes your Ex into feeling extremely compelled to respond to you. Read closely, you will not want to miss this if you want the best chance of getting an Ex back.

Advice on getting an Ex back is one of the largest searches done on the internet today. There are many sites joined by subscription only that have over 25,000 members, fully committed to getting an Ex girlfriend or boyfriend back! You are certainly not alone in this quest. Dealing with an Ex girlfriend or boyfriend has become of great concern to many who sit lonely night after night wishing they had their old flame back. The question can be answered, "How do I get my Ex to return my advances or phone calls, text messages, IM's or Emails?" In today's world there are a lot of ways to communicate.

The communication techniques I am going to show you can be called the Magic of Making up. It works like a charm and you will be so happy you applied the techniques to get your Ex back. This is a complete strategic plan that you will want to follow closely.

You must be warned before hand. Getting an Ex or boyfriend girlfriend back is sensitive and you must have an overall strategy before you begin your quest. Ex partner relationships can be easily damaged by the wrong words delivered at the wrong time or wrong way. The techniques in the Magic of Making Up plan should not be used alone without your overall plan. The plan itself will tell you what to say when. It has worked countless times.

Part of what you need to learn are what phrases, words or actions usually do not work with an Ex, and may cause more damage to your relationship than help. Using these bad techniques to get back an Ex may put you in a very awkward position that you can't recover from. There, you are warned. Don’t use one of the following.

The Emergency Technique to get back an Ex

Don’t pretend there has been some emergency and call your Ex up proclaiming something like, "Bob, call me immediately, there has been an emergency and I need you to call back immediately."

The Pleading Technique to get back an Ex

Under no circumstances act like you are pleading for an Ex to call back. Don't call them and say things like, "Sally, would you please please call me, I have been trying to talk to you for days. So please call back." You just look like a weak person!

Here is some of the best advice to get your Ex back. All people are curious. This is a trait that helps us humans and sometimes hurts us, but we all have it. As well all people have an interest in their self that we will call "self interest." Self interest helps us preserve ourselves as a race, and also meet our own personal needs, some say selfish needs. But we all crave it!

Guess what? Combine the two and you will draw people, especially Ex boyfriends or girlfriends, like a magnet. So, to sum it up, you must create self interest and curiosity in your Ex to win them back.

So how can you phrase your email, text or call to combine the two? How about saying something like this, "Hi Adam, give me a call so I can thank you personally. I very much appreciate all the things you've done for me, and I'd like to thank you."

Do you see what you have done? You have put your Ex in a position of curiosity as to what they did that you are thanking them for. As well you built their ego up by saying they did something that helped you. This is some of the best advice I can give you on getting an Ex back. That is a huge secret.

But before you call you need that plan, as talked about with the Magic of Making Up, that we talked about earlier. Please have this plan first. Part of the plan is knowing what to say "you appreciate they did for you" before you call. You don’t want to stumble around thinking of something at the last minute! It needs to be believable as well, no matter how simple it may sound.

Remember, what you do before, during and after each call you make to your Ex is as important as having them return your call, Text, IM or email. Having no action plan for getting your Ex back may make the situation worse and ruin your chances of getting the Ex back!

So make that plan!