I was reading through an article on how people can ensure their marriage is unhappy. Apart from being eye opening, it helped me realize where people go wrong to arrive at an unhappy marriage. First, a marital union that has no joy or vitality is referred to as an unhappy marriage. The only person who would wish for it is one who has intentions of leaving. We all want to be happy whether in marriage or out of marriage. Today, many people are in marriages that are suffocating them. It is not easy to work on a marriage where your partner is not willing to try. However, in every situation, there is always hope and, you can always make things work for you. It is good to start with what causes the problem in marriage. People can become unhappy due to many things. Lack of proper communcation will leave couple feeling lonely in marriage. Issues of adultery are also very disappointing and will cause many to be unhappy. This is because trust is broken and returning to the place you were before can prove to be very challenging. Money issues will make a marriage very unhappy. Usually, when there is no agreement of how money should be spent.

Many couples become unhappy because they do not have that money in the first place. Poverty is one of the leading causes of strife in families. When things are alright financially, the marriage is more vibrant. Other issues include lack of satisfaction sexually. This is another leading cause of unhappiness. Couples become too familiar with each other until they no longer find any pleasure in sex. It is really a sad tale abserving what marriages have to grapple with everyday. The good news is that you can do something about it. If you are in the marriage for good times and bad, you will find a way to make it work. First, establish what the particular cause of the unhappy marriage. All couples have unique problems and, you should always analyze your case independently. If your spouse has been laid off and as a result you have argued because money is not enough, stop in your tracks.

You need to show him or her love. Love is the only thing that can solve your problem. Do not appear to be judging them or looking down on them. Change your attitude and assure them you are in solidarity. Most partners will put each other down as a way of venting their anger or disappointment. However, both of you have to come up with a good plan for your survival. In cases of infidelity, you need to a lot of willingness to work things out. The end result will have to be forgiveness. It is not easy forgiving someone who put your union to shame. However, with the realization that every man or woman will error at some point, you can forgive and forget. Maybe it will be you begging forgivenss the next time. If you prepare and open your mind to the reality of problems in marriage, you will have an easier time dealing with some issues that can prove innevitable.