There are, of course, any number of factors that contribute to whether you and that special someone are truly compatible. But checking your numbers against theirs can offer some surprising insights into the way your personalities relate! First, write your full birth name and assign numbers to each letter, using the guide below:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

A B C D E F G H I

J K L M N O P Q R

S T U V W X Y Z

Example: J O H N – 1,6,8,5

A L L E N – 1,3,3,5,5

S M I T H – 1,4,9,2,8

Adding the numbers together, we get 67. Add those 6 and 7 together to get 13. Continue to break down the digits, adding 1 and 3. John's birth name number is 4.

Now do the same for the other person's birth name, and take a look at your compatibility!

Lovers By the Numbers

If your birth name number is One ...

One: You'll butt heads frequently – too much ego! But if you work together towards a common goal, you can achiever great things.

Two: A pleasant relationship along traditional lines. No fights, but few sparks.

Three: You two are the life of the party. You work well together and people love you.

Four: Rough waters ahead, usually do to lack of communication. Take time to listen!

Five: A turbulent, highly passionate romance. Enjoy the ups and downs, but avoid being too clingy.

Six: A successful match – if you have the same goals, you'll have a happy, prosperous future.

Seven: You're both smart and enjoy the finer things in life. Lots of passion, too!

Eight: You're both successful and ambitious. Just make sure you make time for each other.

Nine: An explosive combination. You're very different, but that can be exciting.

If your birth name number is Two ...

One: See above.

Two: You're too much alike, and this can lead to irritation. Avoid fighting over silly things.

Three: Difficult, but rewarding if you have patience. Find some common ground and build on that.

Four: A solid relationship that could last a lifetime, but you may fall into a rut.

Five: You're very different, and need to work hard to keep love alive. Cherish each other!

Six: Very compatible, so long as you leave room for emotional growth.

Seven: Two solitary people who need a lot of space – but the time you spend together is magical.

Eight: A smooth relationship when things are good, but can be rocky when times are hard. Focus on your love for each other during the rough patches.

Nine: A merry-go-round of emotions, veering from boredom to intense excitement. Enjoy the ride!

If your birth name number is Three ...

One: See above.

Two: See above.

Three: A passionate, thrilling romance – try to come down to earth so you don't burn out.

Four: Could have problems with money. Get out of the house occasionally and see your friends!

Five: You're a social couple who love a good time. Watch your spending.

Six: Your happy-go-lucky ways could lead to problems, but if you choose to settle down you'll have a great future.

Seven: You're very, very different, and will have to work hard to make your love last.

Eight: Opposites can make for some of the most satisfying relationships – just try not to fight too much!

Nine: You're both dramatic attention-seekers – learn to share center stage with each other.

If your birth name number is Four ...

One: See above.

Two: See above.

Three: See above.

Four: Your relationship is solid, stable and traditional. Just don't insist on having everything your way all of the time!

Five: Your very different personalities mean you'll have to work at your relationship – but it's worth it.

Six: The two of you fit together like a pair of old shoes. Remember to work at the romance!

Seven: You're a serious, intelligent couple who share common values. Lighten up once in awhile.

Eight: You both work hard, and need to make time for romance. Don;t be so stungy with your money – splurge on a romantic weekend getaway!

Nine: You have almost nothing in common – if this is going to work, you'll need a lot of love and understanding to get you through.

If your birth number is Five ...

One: See above.

Two: See above.

Three: See above.

Four: See above.

Five: You're a pair of bohemians who live life by your own rules. Lots of passion, but you may be prone to jealousy.

Six: Learning to make compromises is key. Allow your partner some responsibilities, too.

Seven: A great relationship between two loners – if you make special time for each other.

Eight: You both enjoy working towards your future and give each other a lot of encouragement.

Nine: Anything goes, with you two – just make sure someone remembers to balance the checkbook!

If your birth number is Six ...

One: See above.

Two: See above.

Three: See Six above.

Four: See above.

Five: See above.

Six: You're both generous and enjoy helping others. Avoid setting too high of a standard for your partner to meet – nobody's perfect!

Seven: A difficult match, full of disagreements. Learn to compromise and try not to nitpick.

Eight: Your relationship is the envy of your friends – happy, healthy and enduring.

Nine: Generally happy, but give each other some space – remember that you're individuals!

If your birth number is Seven ...

One: See above.

Two: See above.

Three: See above.

Four: See above.

Five: See above.

Six: See above.

Seven: You'll be great of you can allow your partner to be himself. Make sur to appreciate each other.

Eight: You're both career-oriented, and your relationship will prosper if you don;t fight over money.

Nine: A partnership based on a deep connection, one that will wax and wane over time but will probably endure.

If your birth number is Eight ...

One: See above.

Two: See above.

Three: See above.

Four: See above.

Five: See above.

Six: See above.

Seven: See above.

Eight: Work, work, work – is that all you do? It may seem silly, but have some fun once in awhile!

Nine: A harmonious combination, if you remember to put love first. Money could be and issue.

If your birth number is Nine ...

One: See above.

Two: See above.

Three: See above.

Four: See above.

Five: See above.

Six: See above.

Seven: See above.

Eight: See above.

Nine: A detailed life plan will make the two of you happiest. You have what it takes to make it last a lifetime!

While numerology may be able to point at certain trends and possibilities, remember that your future lies in your own hands. Even if the numbers indicate there may be difficulties, it's up to you to make it work with the one you love. So enjoy your relationship and celebrate your love!