How to get wife back is possible if you are willing to make the adjustment needed.

Are you ready to put forth a considerable amount of effort and time to discover how to get your wife back? Make sure you are ready.

Feelings and emotions are what drive a woman. Your relationship ended because, more likely than not, her emotional needs were not being met.

If you want to ensure a winning relationship the next time around, then the first thing you need to do is fix YOURSELF! If you are not willing to sustain or be happy with your changes that you will be required to make then don’t even try to get back with your ex wife. Trying to do so will result in nothing but more heartbreak for both of you.

It’s kind of like trying to fix your broken car with only broken parts. Won’t work! In order to get the car working again you have to change the bad part with a good one. Same thing goes with your relationship. You have to fix yourself first before the ex will respond. Get rid of the bad parts (habits, etc) and replace them with good meaningful and lasting changes.

If you are ready to make these changes and be absolutely sure about them, then the first step in getting your ex back will be to contact her. Kind of a no brainer, right? WARNING—If you are real serious about getting her back, don’t wait too long as there might already be other suitors vying for her affections.

If it is too hard to call her on the phone, then try sending a letter, e-mail or text message. Don’t beg; just be concerned about her well-being. This should be all the icebreaker that is needed.

Be certain that you LISTEN, every time you contact her, to what she says and does not say. What? "How can I listen to what she doesn’t say?" Watch for non-verbal clues. They will give you an indication of what she expects from you and how she’s feeling. She won’t tell you.

Be very attentive and show her that you respect her as a person. How? Respect her opinions and feelings. She absolutely needs to sense that her partner respects her feelings and opinions and that she is of great worth to you.

Now what’s next? Flirt a little (you should be able to tell if she is ready for this step). A woman is happiest when she knows she is beautiful and desired by her man. Don’t rush this step. Just be subtle.

She needs a friend, but be careful to not become just a friend. If you cross the ‘friend only line’ it will be over because you are now only a friend to her. You need to remain attentive but, to some extent, attached. Don’t become over emotional just to appear a sensitive new age man- this will work against you.

Remember, fix yourself first and then support and respect her. If you are capable of giving her everything that she requires emotionally, it is possible to get wife back.