Relationship break ups happen to everyone at some stage in their lives and are never easy. If you are currently wondering how to get back ex girlfriend please do not despair. There are certain key strategies that will help improve your chances of a happy reconciliation.

Critically analysing the reasons for the split is absolutely key to a positive resolution. If you get back together and nothing has changed then the relationship is doomed. Actions will always speak louder than words in these circumstances. Take stock of any recurring issues between the two of you that seemed always to be causing rows or heated discussions. Chances are that you committed one or some of women’s "cardinal sin list".

To get your ex girlfriend back using very simple following techniques

Women generally need affection and attention. Did you tell her how much you loved her? Were you demonstrative? It is not about constantly drooling over her or buying her chocolates or flowers all the time. Rather it is more about those loving smiles, secret glances, impromptu hugs, stolen kisses, surprise text messages or other ways of reassuring your woman that you’re thinking about her and love her. If this has been a criticism levelled at you then you must take steps to improve on these communication skills.

All women like to feel their partner is emotionally supportive. No matter how strong and feisty or capable your girlfriend is, she will want her partner to be capable of being assertive, taking charge and looking after her at times of need. An inability on your part to do this must be remedied.

Trust is key to women and any kind of infidelity will break the trust. This will lead to rows and usually the disintegration of a relationship. Has your ex had cause to doubt your fidelity? Regardless of whether you have actually been unfaithful or not, a womens imagination is incredible.

Ironically, if you have been living together, not sharing the household chores is a very common reason for relationship break downs. Your partner does not want to feel like your mother, lifting and laying after you all the time. If you haven’t been helping around the house then you need to change.

Having ascertained what the problems have been in the relationship its up to you to change as much as possible to recapture your ex girlfriends interest.