Find yourself asking, "How Do I get My Ex Back?" If you do find yourself asking this question, it can bring a lot of questions to go along with it. I'll attempt to answer these questions here and maybe help you out with figuring out how to get your ex back. Getting an ex back takes a lot of effort on your part and you can do it, especially if you focus your effort in the right areas.

Determining the answer to this question can be a very challenging thing to do and your emotions can definitely cloud your ability to answer it. It's ok to feel the way you feel, determining why you are feeling the way you do and using that to help you answer this question is key. Allowing your emotions to react for you can very damaging to you and anyone around you, often causing you to say things that are not 100% true.

I know you are asking yourself how does this answer the question, "How do I get my ex back?" Bear with me, making sure that getting back with an ex will be the right thing to do is very important to your well being and the well being of your ex. Although the physical side of a relationship is very important, is your ex's physical presence the only thing filling that void? Is this person vital to your spiritual growth? I know, I know...more questions to answer.

How do I get my ex back without looking desperate? There a few things that should be avoided that yell, very loudly, "I'm desperate!" Stalking comes to mind, whether it's in person or on the internet. Take it easy on yourself, constantly showing up at the places you know your ex is going to be is not a good idea and spending all day and all night reading the comments on their Myspace page will only drive you nuts.

Avoid trying to "Buy" them back by taking them out and spending money on them just for the simple fact that you want to get back together with your ex. Remember it's how do I get my ex back, not how do i buy my ex back. Doing nice things for them is a good idea as long as your heart is in the right place and you're not just trying to "buy" them back.

Sometimes people really do need space, it's a beautiful thing. When you are going through a break up and your boyfriend or girlfriend tells you they need space this is a good time for you to take advantage of your space and spend some good quality time alone. As we talked about before, your emotions might not allow you to see that this would be a good time for space of your own. Also, continuously chasing after your ex when they ask for space screams DESPERATION and tells this person that you don't trust what they are telling you. Plus, you never know, maybe he or she is asking themselves the question, "How do I get my ex back?"

I hope that I have helped you figure out that getting back with an ex is exactly what you need and if that is what you really want or need, I hope I have helped you find an answer to that daunting question "How Do I get My Ex Back?"

Either way, I wish you the best of luck in your future and your journey to happiness.