Talking dirty is a sure way to make sex better especially if you start talking a few hours before bedtime. There is lot of things you can say to turn on your boyfriend or your lover. How dirty you decide to talk is up to you. You can start out with a little sweet talk and work your way in to some downright raunchy toe curling dirty talk if you choose to.

Everyone loves to be complimented about their looks as it will boost their ego and makes them feel good. When one feels good about themselves it shows in the way they walk and talk.

Start out with a nice compliment "You look great today!" "I love your shirt it makes your eyes sparkle." You get the idea just a simple sweet compliment is all you need to get the ball rolling.

The second phase of talking dirty can include more descriptive and sexy talk. Such as "I love your shirt but I’d love it even more if it was on the floor!" "You look so hot today I want to ravish your body." You have used the same compliment and just added a suggestion to it. This is a very effective way to set the mood for a night of passion.

As the evening turns in to the night, spice up your compliments by talking a little dirtier. Make your compliments a bit more descriptive and add a few things you would like to do to your lover and keep him wanting more.

Climb into bed and spend a few minutes telling each other dirty stories, if you have a book of erotic stories you can take turns reading to each other. If not you make up your own story, start by each of you telling a little about "yourself" in the story once you have established your "character" you can move on the to setting and then on to the action!

Once you have your story you can act it out! This will spice up your sex life like you would not believe. Talking dirty always makes the sex better, the better talker you are the better the sex can be!