Do you feel like everything you try to do to get your ex boyfriend back just pushes him further and further away? I'm sure you keep asking yourself, "What Can I Do to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back"? If you really want to get him back, follow these tips. I guarantee you'll have your ex boyfriend back in no time.

Right now, I'm sure you're going through a difficult time. Your overly anxious about getting back with your ex boyfriend. So, to him, it seems as though you're smothering him. It's only human nature for him to pull away, so don't take it personally. What you need to do is take a step back, calm down and get some perspective.

Things You Should Not Be Doing

If you're doing any of the following, you're going about getting your ex boyfriend the wrong way.

Calling Your Ex Too Much

Constantly Writing Him Emails or Texting

Trying to Make Him Feel Sorry For You

Worst of All, Begging Him to Take You Back

Stop these now! The only thing they will do is push him away.

So, I bet you're wondering, "What Can I Do to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back"?

The first, and most difficult thing to do is to break off contact. This will give him some room and, also important, it will give you some room. You may think you don't need room right now, but, trust me, you do.

During this time, focus on improving yourself. Not just your appearance, but do some serious self-reflection. Once he sees the new you, he'll see what he's missing and he'll be running back to you. This is the exact opposite of when you were smothering him. It is natural for him to want you back now, opposed to being pushed away by your overbearing personality.

You should know now what not to do to get your ex boyfriend back. The question remains "What Can I Do to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back"? You have the answer. Stay grounded. Remove yourself from the situation, calm down and get a new perspective. One that will help you improve your life and show him that you really are worth being with. He may have forgotten that. Now is your chance to remind him.