Nearly everyone is searching for that special someone they hope to spend the rest of their life with. When you are fortunate to find this person, you more than likely going to feel happier than ever before, happiness gives one that feeling and of security.Sadly, break ups are do happen, and they happen to anyone. Some break ups are vital, and other can be reversed. Are you trying to get an ex back, because you believe you cannot or will not live without them? Here are some tips from

1 - First and foremost, you need to have a clear head so you need to

People can always tell if you have too much going on in your mind, and if you have a lot on your mind regarding the break up, your ex will detect it. You need to stop thinking about how badly you want him or her back, stop stressing about the future of your relationship, and simply clear your head

stay sharp . It will improve your communication with your ex, which will improve the chances of getting back with your ex.

2 - If you want your ex back, you need to avoid being a sell out. I know you want to do everything humanly possible to get your ex back, but don't drop to your knees begging and apologizing simply because you want him or her back so badly. Instead, you need to be strong, calm down, and focus on doing fine without him or her to get their attention again.

3 - To create a wow factor. The same old you is not going to do much when it comes to getting back with your ex. The old you contributed to the end of the relationship, so it is time to create a wow factor. Do a little bit to change your life, like working out more, or getting a better job. Do something to create a better image of who you are, and you ex will surely notice and respond well to the positive changes.

4 - To get your ex back, do not forget. You should not allow your past to haunt you, but you should not forget about what led to the break up either. Take what happened in the past and turn these events into a learning experience. It is

sad but true that some times mistakes have to be made before we can learn so,make sure you do not make the same mistakes in the future, should you get back together with your ex future.

5 - Create a plan, finally! You cannot just emotionally go all out, hoping for good results. Put a logical plan together instead, thinking logically and operating accordingly. If you put some thought into the process you will be a lot more successful at scoring your ex back. Walk into the situation with a plan and you will be able to. .