There is a fact in the saying ‘the world is not enough’. Even though it is an amazing feeling to be in love with a man who you know adores you the most in life. But even in such cases the men are not always as affectionate and attentive as you would want them to be. If you are not happy with the level of devotion he shows towards you, you don’t have to be disheartened. Every problem has a solution. There are things you should know about how to make him want you more. The most important thing to understand is how he views you now.

If you find your boyfriend to be a changed person from what he was in the beginning of your relationship then you are not the only woman to have noticed that. Men love the thrill in the chase of a woman. Usually that thrill goes off when they get the woman. If you want to get back the boyfriend that he was all you have to do is remind him how it felt to not be sure he had you yet. When making a plan for how to make him want you more this should be the first strategy. The simplest and most effective way of putting this strategy in action is to not be available to him always when he wants to get together.

Make plans every now and then that don’t include him. And do not cancel those plans every time he wants to meet you. Let him work hard to earn a few moments of your busy schedule.

Make use of reverse psychology. You have to do things just the opposite way than what you feel like you want to do to get the right results. Try and act cool when with him. Do not press for commitment. You should look like you are ok with the things the way they are moving and also that you have your options open. When he doesn’t find you making future plans including him he will be inclined to do that. He will start to be restless in his mind if you don’t press for a promise of fidelity. This would make him feel you are also looking forward to other options. This will be more effective if you have been dating with him for a while. Don’t overdo it. Flirting with other man just to make him jealous is not the strategy for how to make him want you more and may backfire. All you have to do is stay away from talks of commitment and marriage. That will leave him in an air of mystery.

Being independent and confident about self are the key strategies when planning about how to make him want you more. When you look serious about your career and goals in life it creates an impression on the man that you have other interests as well apart from the man. When he finds your life doesn’t have a big void in his absence, he will work extra hard to keep a place in your life.