How many times have you wondered if your ex still has feelings for you? It’s normal to think that after you have suffered a huge breakup loss. A breakup can make you feel unloved and unwanted. It’s normal to feel this way too. You probably think there might be a chance to get them back. In some instances, there is a chance to get your ex back.

For starters, you do have the chance to get your ex back. However, you have to keep a few things in check. Don’t start calling them whining for another chance. Don’t leave voicemail messages every five minutes asking them to call you back just as soon as they can. As long as you understand these guidelines, you, like other couples going through the same thing, do have a chance to work things out with your ex.

Keep in mind that feelings don’t vanish overnight. When a relationship suddenly ends with no advance warning, your ex may be dealing with some issues regarding the relationship that didn’t seem like there was any other way to cope. Chances are they are just as in love with you as before, they just have to know how to fix the problems at hand. If this is your case, this relationship has an opportunity to survive.

However, people have made mistakes when trying to get their ex back. Breakups become permanent when they didn’t have to be. The phrase, "we have to talk" usually sends a person into a panicky state thus making them act needier than ever. When you become a desperate person that wants to prove to your ex that you are the one for them, you come across as a nut. By doing this, you’re only reaffirming their decision to end the relationship.

Try to remember the days before your ex showed up in your life. You have to remember how life was like without them in it. Give your ex and even yourself some time away from one another. How long usually? A month will do. Continue living your life like nothing ever happened. Hang out with friends. Those friends will see you through the rough points. Before you know it, you’ll start to feel better about things and yourself. You’ll end up having fun without forcing yourself to have fun.

If your ex hears about your "exploits", it’s likely they’ll wonder why they ever let you go.

They’ll begin to think about you all the time and may even make the first move to contact you. When your ex hears that you can live life without them, it makes them wonder if he or she really needed you more than you needed them.

Just going out and being in the nightlight scene might help you get back your ex. That may be wiser but it’s a start if you are thinking of getting your ex back.