If you really want to win back your love, than you have to train in yourself a will, that you don’t do some things, which push your ex more and more away from you.

And the very important thing is to give each other some time to calm down and to put some thoughts and emotions in order. I understand very well, that you miss your love, that you think, if you don’t do something immediately, he or she will be gone forever. … and so on.

A very common mistake which people do, who want to get ex back, is calling several times per day, leaving messages on the answering machine and sending bunch of e-mails to their ex partner. And doing this you even don’t realize, how much you get on the nerves of your love. He more and more gets a wish to switch off the phone and to delete all your messages, because it all annoys and makes him angry. If it is, of course, your intention, than you are on the right way.

But I am sure, that you are looking for his attention and a chance to get his heart back.

Patience is the main thing, which will deliver you best results on the way of getting your ex back.

That is why, you have to try to switch off your mind to something else. It is difficult, I know, but possible. And you have to do it. Don’t contact your ex for two or three weeks. Let him breath a bit and calm down. It might happen, that he will call you by himself after some time.

Remember, as more you show the interest to your ex as less he wants to see and hear from you anymore. When he understands, that you can live without him, that you keep on smiling and meeting with friends, he gets very often a wish to contact you by himself.

You have to get your self-confidence. You have to look outstanding, better then ever. You should stop crying begging your ex to come back.

After pause of couple of weeks very carefully try to fix with him a short meeting to discuss some things. If he anyway resists, wish him all the best, don’t show, that it makes you sad or angry and give it another pause. When he understands, that you came down, that you won’t cry begging him to come back, then you have a chance that your ex will accept your proposal to meet with you. Keep it short first time, smile and don’t dig too much into the past.