All men are experiencing the pain of breaking up with the loved woman sometime in their life. And is not a matter of being successful, rich, or good looking. We all go through this just the same. But the real winners are those men who know how to get her back, and learn from this a valuable lesson.

If you lost the woman of your life or just another girlfriend and want to get her back, you should know what kind of things to avoid after break up. The three types of ex i am going to outline here are worst ex boyfriend types, and i hope you will not recognize yourself amongst them. But if you do, remember that we all have our weakness. And becoming aware of personal faults allows us to correct them. The point of this article is to help you avoid doing the exact things that will destroy your chances to get her back.

1.The Nagging Ex

Sometimes we don't even realize we are nagging. We just want to prove our point, or to reassure our beloved one that things are going to change. You want to be sure she understands, so we check again. Five minutes after that we realize we forgot to mention something important. Then we panic that maybe she is going to meet somebody else and we will never get her back. Or the urge to talk with her is so strong that we cannot resist it.

My friend, nagging her is the wrong way to get back together. Endlessly begging and apologizing will not work. Not only it will push her away, you will also lose your self esteem and confidence so necessary to get her back.

2.The Blaming Ex

"Is only because you said that to me". Sounds familiar? If she would not provoke you, if she would be more understandable, if only she would do this or that....So now she is to blame for the break up, for the pain you are going through, for everything wrong in your life. Maybe you are right, but even so...you want to get her back, right?

Let me tell you something. Blaming somebody else is not taking responsibility. And as long as you don't take responsibility, you have no control of the situation. You cannot fix the problems because you always expect her to do it. If you want to get her back and go on with this relationship, you should admit at least half of the responsibility for what went wrong. And you definitely should take control and do whatever it takes to get her back to you. Giving up the blaming game is one of the first things you should do.

3.The "Stab In The Back" Ex

We all have seen this kind of ex boyfriend at least once. After break up he is very busy slandering his ex, exposing all kind of private details, telling everyone how worthless she was. And as incredible as may sound, those kind of men still have the hope to get her back somehow.

The one who start dating her best friend also belongs to this category. Is a reaction to our own pain, to hurt back the one we feel is responsible. And because we were so close, we know exactly what hurts most.

Don't you ever go that road, my friend, even if you don't want to get her back. And if you felt maybe tempted to hurt her, if only a little bit, read again the second chapter of this article.

There are some more bad examples of ex boyfriends, but these three are the worst. And beside the fact they will never get her back, they also destroy the chances of future relationships by not recognizing those damaging behavior patterns.