Get Back Your Ex: Avoid Chasing and Stalking Your Ex

Wanting to get back your ex boy friend? Well, it's possible if you know what to

do. There are many things that you can do to get him back. However, there are

many people who end up doing the wrong things and driving their ex away. One of

the main mistakes that so many people make when trying to get back with an ex is

chasing them. The last thing you want to do is chase or stalk your ex. Although

you may not be meaning to stalk them, desperately chasing them to get them back

can come across this way. So, let's take a closer look at how important this

principle is and how it can help you to get your ex back.

Don't Just Show Up

First of all, it's important that you don't just show up at their home. You need

to allow them to have their privacy and space. It can be scary for you to just

show up at their home without any warning and it definitely looks like you could

be stalking them. If you have to go back to pick up some of your things, then

call ahead, but avoid too much contact for the first few weeks if at all

possible.

Avoid "Accidental" Meetings

You'll also want to make sure that you avoid any "accidental" meetings as well.

Believe it or not, if you show up somewhere that your ex is and try to arrange

an "accidental" meeting, more than likely they are going to realize what you are

trying to do and it won't win you any points. You'll look desperate and like you

are following them around, so just avoid doing this at all. There are better

ways that you can meet and talk with your ex than this.

Don't Become a Text Stalker

You don't want to become a text stalker either. If you love to text - restrain

yourself. The last thing your ex needs is 20-30 texts from you every day. If

it's really important, one text will do. If your ex is constantly getting texts

from you, they are going to begin to wonder if you are mentally stable, which is

not the way you'll win your ex boy friend back. So, just avoid the text

messaging unless absolutely necessary for the best results.

Stop Ringing the Phone Off the Hook

Of course not texting is no reason to keep ringing the phone off the hook

either. Don't leave 20 voice mails on your ex's voice mail letting them know

that you want him back. This comes across as a bit obsessive, needy, and scary,

so you'll want to just avoid using the phone to call your ex. After a few weeks,

it may be okay to give a call, but don't go crazy with it.

You Don't Want Your Ex to Fear You

All of these behaviors can make you look like a stalker, and the last thing you

want is for your ex to fear you. There are plenty of stalkers out there today

and you don't want to come across as one. So make sure that you avoid chasing

your ex and appearing like you're stalking him.