So this is another Saturday night and you are spending it by yourself. Your time is spent wondering where your recent-ex is tonight and just what kind of misery they are in thinking of you! Don’t worry, not many of us actually think that their ex is out having fun, dining and dancing. According to the broken-hearts club they are supposed to be just as miserable as you are. Guess what? Many times they are out having fun and if you want to get back together with them it is your move! So spend the rest of the evening getting your wits together and deciding just how much you want to feel that familiar body next to you again.

It does not matter if this was just a small squabble or the two of you really threw emotional punches and now your are out! Remember when you first met and there was something that built a fire in your heart whenever you saw or thought about your love. Once you found your love to be something special, and if you still are thinking of that person the spark is still alive somewhere within you. All you need do is stir that spark up and the fire within will be rekindled! If this article has stirred that fire just a wee little bit then think about these following tips:

Tip#1: You can search the internet and find many guides out there to reclaim love. No matter which one you choose there can only be one first tip, and that is you must believe you can . If you continue to show your insecurities about this relationship then you are destined from the start to fail. Acquire an aura of confidence, that is to mean persistence, for this lost love and you definitely increase your success odds. While this may lead some to believe they need a "take it or leave it" attitude this is not so. What you do need is to outwardly portray an attitude that you will get the job done, and then get on about doing it!

Tip#2: Along with this confidence you will need tenderness and caring. Guys, this is where the ladies have it all over us. Women seem to naturally be able to display this quality. If you are not capable in this area then you better get practicing! This is not to say you should fawn over another person like a love-starved puppy dog. The goal is to get the word back to your ex that you still care, still have feelings. This can be accomplished in conversations with a third party…go out to lunch with someone close to the ex and work your relationship into the conversation. If skillfully done this will get back to you love and will act to soften his (or her) heart towards you.

Regaining a lost love may be just what you need in your life. While you cannot completely control another’s emotional state, if you work on the above tips you may gain a necessary foothold and strongly tip the scales to your advantage. However, if you have forgotten or forgiven all trespasses from your ex and are ready to again be the person they fell in love with success is in your future. Give love another chance and your life definitely will be enriched in the future.