Being dumped must be the worst thing that can happen to anyone in a relationship. Ending things mutually would have been a better ending. In my case, when I experienced this thing, the thought of wanting to get my ex girlfriend back did not leave my mind. Believe it or not, I carried out an effective plan which helped me get my ex girlfriend back.

The first strategy that I used is termed "I agree". Getting my ex girlfriend back became easier after this. Especially after treating her like a fool and being the immature guy she didn’t want anymore. I called her once and for all and told her that I wish her well. I said I agree with the break up and that it might have been good for both of us to part ways. After saying these things, I hanged up. No point in relishing the past.

This technique got her thinking twice about what she’s lost; reverse psychology as they call it that became the first effective step in getting my ex GF back. I tried my best to sound cool and civil while talking to her then.

The next strategy that I used to get my ex GF back is called "the silent mode" or the "shut up". After calling her, I did not call her again. That made her think then that I am truly gone for good and she spent a lot of sleepless nights wondering if she was wrong in thinking that I am puerile.

Somehow, doing these two steps drove me crazy as well. And yes, of course I lied in the first step. However, I did not lie again when I’ve gotten her back. I deeply know that getting back with an ex is a decision I can’t play around with.

The third and last strategy that I used is "playing hard to get" or in other words; "playing her role". I did not rush in getting back with her. I took everything slowly but surely. It’s because I do not want us to return to that wrong path that we had crossed before which eventually led to a breakup.

After all the patience, I got her back and we became a better pair. I made it a point then to prioritize the relationship. I realized that when I got my ex GF back, I had one of the best moments of my life.

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