Every woman knows if the sex goes sour you have a good chance of the relationship going with it. In all honesty most women know the relationship is nearing the end when your partner is no longer happy in bed. Here's a few definitive ways you can keep your man happy in bed.

Sure some couples go through a rough time when the sex just isn’t as exciting or maybe it’s downright dull. If you want to keep your man then you have to spice up your sex life again.

Men start to stray when the sex begins boring or non existent so if you don’t want that to happen then you have to learn how to keep your man happy in bed. Take a few minutes and re-evaluate your sex life and how you can keep your partner happy when he is with you.

Do you have sex once a week or as often as possible? If you’re only having sex once every week asks yourself why? If you cannot come up with a real good reason then you need to make time or put more effort into your sex life. This is not to say the lack of sex in your relationship is your fault. There are three ways to keep you man happy in bed.

The first is to follow his lead just like dancing, only horizontal.

• If he is vocal then you be vocal.

• If he is daring and always willing to try new things then you be willing to try new things.

• If he likes to mix things up then mix them up!

The above listed ways will keep your man happy in bed assuming that you are performing at you best.

If you find that you only own one silky see through sexy lingerie then you need to buy more, men enjoy the thrill of what’s underneath even though they know what’s underneath! If you just lie there and let him do all the work, then you need to become wiser and more active in bed. It is a fact that men enjoy being in control but they also enjoy being controlled.

Boost their ego with a little dirty talk, if you lay their like a dead fish flopping around sooner or later he’s going to be turned off by this. Men need to know they are pleasuring you so it’s important to not only show them but to tell them as well.

These three simple often over looked things will indeed keep your man happy in bed and keep him from looking for a new bed!