Are you feeling like you lost all hope on how to get back together with your ex? do you feel your efforts are pushing them further away from you? do you find yourself thinking, what can I do to get him/her back into your life again. Well, the answers to your questions are right here at your finger tips, this is what you need to do that will greatly improve you chances!!

Reading this article proves that you are serious about putting the fire back into your relationship, it doesn't matter how you got here as long as the information tips will genuinely help you... and believe me it will.

First before we get started, there are a few things you must stop doing that will turn your ex - him/her off, is don' t be so very Anxious to get back together with your ex... acting in this way will surely cause your ex to pull back away from you. Pressuring them will only make matters worst than what they are... and just remind them why they broke up with you in the first place!!

Stop calling them every minute of the hour, don't text them, write letters or send a courier pigeon... you don't want them to feel sorry for you! if you are doing any of these things, just stop it! you won't get back together with your ex this way and it only makes them dislike you even more.

OK, now that I have your attention - here's what you should do, and please don't try to reinvent the wheel.. these are very simple steps for you to take to ensure your success in getting him/her back.

1. Stop all communication, ( boyfriend, girlfriend, ex wife, ex husband ) go get a hobby or something - that will occupy your time!

2. Focus on You for change, find out what you can do to improve your own personal issues that's going on in your life!

3. Stop worrying about a relationship right now and what people are saying... that include close ( friends, family, etc ) - this is going to be challenging times and requires Discipline on your part, to prevent you from returning to your old ways.

While all this is going on - your ex isn't feeling any more pressure from you, strange things start to happen when you back-off! their feeling has shifted into another gear about the way they feel about you now. Since they have not heard from you and you stop pursing them, now you have become a mystery to them once again like when you first met - because he/she don't know what your doing or thinking.

Now guess what? this works in your favor, you have giving your ex time to miss you and allow them to remember why he/she fell in love with you the first time... which was not even possible when you were not given them room to breath!!

Remembering these few steps and following them to the letter when your trying to get back with your ex, even if your trying to repair a recent breakup this strategy will work every time. These are life lessons in understanding the common mistakes we all make to avoid pressuring the one we love!!

Another thing stay level headed, what I mean by that is, be a mystery play hard to get, but don't get crazy with it... let the fire burn slowly and watch it blaze up fast, your ex won't be able to sleep nights just thinking about you. Let them make the first move, you know the drill... ever man and women wants to be desirable, lust after, now you have something to go on - What are you waiting for get started!