The famous ten-year marriage of Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, the fiery affair

of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, many a much-hyped relationship died sudden

deaths. Regrettably, this might happen to any relationship, notwithstanding the

highs and lows faced together, the good times shared, and the rough weather

battled bravely together. It is natural to retain intense feelings for the

former lover. It is indeed hard to forget the past and move on. However, it is

not wrong to try to resurrect a past liaison. A few tips on how to get your ex

girl friend back will come in handy:

First, it is essential to commit yourself to work on rekindling the old flames.

You have to make the first move.

Secondly, you must find out the real reason behind the break-up. Your ex girl

friend may try to conceal this from you, but you have to get to the bottom of

the matter and detect it correctly. This will help immensely in winning her

back.

Next, you must train yourself to be flexible. A reluctance to change and a

refusal to bend to your girlfriend’s wishes might cause a break-up. You should

come to terms with each other as you are - qualities, shortcomings and all.

There is nothing so good if you can team up with her family and friends. They

will co-operate with you if you have been nice to them in the past, and that

will help your case like nothing else.

You have to realize that both of you need some breathing space, some time to

cool off. There is little sense in trying to reach to her right after the

break-up; she probably won’t respond. Heated arguments are common at this stage.

A time will come when both of you can think coolly; that is the opportune moment

to contact her. You could drop off a note, send her a text message, or write her

a thoughtful email. Be contrite, but do not overdo it. Behave as a friend would,

not an ex-lover.

A very important tip that you should keep in mind if you really want to win back

her love is that never rush in to things. Be slow, steady, and patient.

The final step you could take is to initiate a meeting with her. Be candid with

her, do not justify yourself. If she agrees to meet up with you, there is ample

chance of a reunion.

You now have all the facts you need to know. You are in a position to get your

ex girl friend back. Do not act impulsively, though. Be patient and

understanding. With a little luck and effort from your side, she’ll come back to

you. Show that you truly love her.