For some men when their girlfriends left, they will go all the way out to get back their girlfriend without first understanding the reason she pulled away. Human beings are social animals and hence they cannot live without relationships. Friends, family or foes nor girl friends or lovers need to be existent in ones life. Lack of such relationships creates depression, frustration and loneliness. A man has to be always dependant on somebody close to his heart to give him emotional and moral support.

At different stages this need for a close relationship varies. During initial stages when he is very young he needs the love and care of his mother, then as he grows his priorities change and so is the need and he finds other women as girl friends or lovers to strike a balance in life.

From his adolescence every man looks for more than an emotional and moral friend. He needs physical intimacy too and so gets into intimate relationship with the opposite sex. This relationship is so strong that when it breaks at times because of lack of understanding or compatibility he cannot bear it nor cope with it.

If you are a victim of a breakup recently ask yourself these questions. Do you want to get back your ex girl friend? Or do you think you can move on in life without your ex? If you want to get together again what are your plans to get her back? If you wish to move then how are you planning to take your life to a better future? When you start addressing these questions then you can find a better solution to what is to be done.

Otherwise you will just get depressed knowing not what to do and how to proceed. So, face the reality, find a solution and stop allowing the break up to break you up into pieces.

Many men take to drugs or start drinking to forget their ex girl friend and they will do all silly things to get back their ex girlfriend. But they don’t realize that all these action will only create a negative effect and will only create more hate in the minds of their ex girl friend. So the best way to get back an ex girlfriend is to give her some space to think about you while you carry your life with self esteem and dignity.

When you are confident and have self love it will reflect in your personality and hence others will be more attractive towards you. Thus get back your ex girlfriend by just carrying on life with esteem and dignity.