How to win my ex boyfriend back. Compared to guys, girls are usually very "verbal". After a breakup, they often have the urge to share their feelings with their ex boyfriend, write him a long letter to tell him how she feels. But is that smart? Should you write a letter to your ex boyfriend?

Regarding "how to get my boyfriend back" tactics, I can share a bit of my experience with you. I went through 2 breakups in the past (one after 5 years, and one after 1 and a half) and I usually find it very helpful to write my feelings on paper. The sad part is, if you write your ex boyfriend a letter expressing your inner most thoughts, or how broken you are about the situation, it does not improve the situation.

There are breakups happening every single day, so there is some common behavior we can find with most girls and guys after a breakup. One example is: Most guys don't respond too well to long, emotional letters from an ex girlfriend.

Most girls want to get "closure" after a breakup. That's why a lot of them tend to send a letter to their ex boyfriend, explaining their feelings. This is not a good idea in my book!

I would suggest doing the following: Write your feelings down, but don't send them to your ex boyfriend. Just do it to get a clear perspective on the situation.

If you really have to share your feelings, and your girl friends are not enough, why don't you just post your feelings on a blog or some forum? That way, you will get a lot of advice on how to handle your specific situation, and it will be a lot smarter then sending a letter to your ex boyfriend.

If you were planning to send your ex boyfriend a letter, and now are unsure about what to do.. I would recommend you think long and hard before you do. The effect is usually far from what you are trying to achieve.

Well I hope you found some value in my article, and if I can just give you one thing to keep in mind it would be this: Value your friends, and the time you spend with them. Don't take their love for granted. And remember: If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, there are better methods than sending him a letter for sure.