Suddenly you notice that your boyfriend is acting differently than he acts. He's suddenly more concerned with his appearance than he used to be. He is starting to act more loving towards you, or the complete opposite and is acting somewhat guilty. Hhe definitely is not being himself. Does this mean he's cheating? Well, if your man's behavior changes, chances are that something has changed with him. Let's take a look at the signs of how to tell if your boyfriend is cheating.

Your boy starts wearing a new style of clothing or he is doing his hair differently. Why? Is it because he likes a girl that is into that type of style? He suddenly has new interests like a certain type of T.V. show he never had interest in before. Is he suddenly spending more time getting ready for school or work in the morning? This may be the first sign of a cheater.

Your gut feeling tells you he is cheating. Okay, you think. It's just a feeling I have. But the truth is, it's probably not just a feeling. Why else would you have it? Human beings are not robots. We are biological beings, just like the rest of the animal kingdom. People, especially women are capable of having instincts just like animals do. We just don't rely on our instincts as much as animals because over the millions of years, we have learned to communicate - and so, we ignore our instincts. But they are still somewhat there! You just have to pay attention to them. As psychologists say, your instincts are almost always right. So, if you are reading this article - ask yourself why you are reading it. Do you feel insecure in your relationship? And if so, why. Your instincts are probably telling you something isn't right.

Now, you probably won't be able to acuse your boyfriend of cheating simply because your gut feeling tells you he is. So you'll need to get some evidence to back this up. Let's take a look at the evidence that may help you determine if your boyfriend is cheating on you. Does your boyfriend suddenly have new friends in his life that he's hanging out with all the time? Does he go out with his buddies and never invite you? Your boyfriend should at least invite you to go along once in a while. It's understandable if he wants to have a night out alone with his guy pals, but if he never invites you to meet them or hang out with them, something isn't right. He shouldn't be embarrassed of you, and he should have fun with you so much that he would love for you to hang out with him and his buddies once in a while. He should also be able to tell you who he was with and what they did. If he can't keep his story straight, he is lying. One thing to keep in mind is, the world famous psychiatrist, Sigmund Freud's famous line was, "deception oozes out of his every pore.." meaning, when someone is lying, you can always tell, but you need to pay very close attention in order to see it. He might have a sudden slip of the tongue, you know he'll say something and immediately change his wording. Don't ignore that. Take it as a sign that he is lying. Maybe he does something else everytime he lies like scratches his head or stutters. Maybe not. Put it to the test - ask him something you know he'll lie about, and see how he reacts as he is answering. Monitor his body language or tone of voice. Then when you ask him a question you should be able to tell if he is lying or not.

Does your boyfriend suddenly start to get angry with you for no reason? Or does he just come out and and accuse you of cheating? This could be because he feels guilty about what he's doing to you, and he doesn't feel that guilt anymore, so he blames you. Outta nowhere, he brings up that time where when you were flirting with his friends - even though you didn't think you were! This is most likely because he wants to make you out to be the cheater. The relationship ruiner. That way, why should he feel bad about cheating on you? In his eyes, you deserve it.

The most obvious clue that he is cheating, is when he is suspiciously text messaging somebody all the time, or someone is constantly calling his phone and you don't know who it is. He might claim that it's just one of his friends. You might find out later it's another female, but they're just friends. A good female-friend would respect that he is with his girlfriend and would back off a little. So to be 100% sure your boyfriend is cheating, the evidence usually lies within his cell phone, or instant messenger list, because he needs to talk to the other girl somehow. Sneak his cell if you can, and look at his sent folder of his text messages, or the suspicious looking numbers saved on his phone. In reality, you shouldn't have to go that far. You should know your boyfriend is either cheating, wishes he were with someone else, or simply just not worth your time If he is acting suspiciously and making you worry. So is he cheating? If you're feeling anxious about your relationship, there is a problem and you should confront him about it.