Does it feel like to you that everything you try to do just pushes your ex away even more? Are you constantly asking yourself, "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back?" Does this perfectly describe how you're feeling today? If so, then here are some "how to get back with an ex" tips that are sure to greatly increase your chances of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.

Since you found and are reading this article, it is obvious that you are very serious about saving your relationship or in getting back with your ex. The first tip is to control your anxiety level if you are feeling very anxious as this could lead you to behave in ways that cause your ex to pull away naturally. Fighting against human nature rarely works, and usually only makes the problem worse.

Are you bothering your ex too much with phone calls, emails or texts? Do you consciously try to make him feel sorry for you? Also, if you are always thinking about how to get back with your ex, you must stop immediately.

The question remains: How can I get my ex boyfriend back? Let's take a different path. You should start by having no contact with your ex for a time. There will be no communication between you and your ex lover. Instead, you will be focusing on ways you can improve yourself and your life, not how can I fix my relationship. This will be difficult and discipline will become your mantra.

Since you are not "chasing" your ex anymore, he will begin to experience a shift in how he feels towards you. Because he no longer knows what you're doing or feeling, this will add an air of mystery about you for him. The more mysterious you become will put your ex boyfriend in a position to actually miss you. Of course, this is not possible if you are constantly calling him.

Please remember that the key to this plan is to work in tandem with human nature and not to fight against it. So if you have the nagging question, "How do I get my ex boyfriend back?", in your head, you now have a basic understanding of what it takes to get him back. Avoid smothering your soon to be ex ex boyfriend, appear mysterious, and let him make that first move.