Have you been through a divorce or separation and looking to "get back my husband" before he moves on? It's no good staying depressed. Just because you have lost him now, it does not mean he will be gone away forever.

This is what I did to get back my husband before he moved on to other women.

STEP 1 - Make Him Want You

The first course of action I took to get back my husband was to figure out a way to make him want me once more Unless he truly cannot stand being around you, there are various things you can do.

One of the things that I did was to at the least be his friend. I needed to show him that I understood his perspective and that I could be in his company without pouring out my emotions. I decided to have a healthy, fun, light-hearted friendship with him, so that when the stress of the breakup had eased off, he could see how good we were together.

STEP 2 - Keep Him Guessing

When trying to get my husband back, I communicated with him in such a way that I was caring and sweet, but also showed a little attitude. Although my aim was to make him want me, I wanted to show him that he had to work for my affection still But I did not take it so far as to play mind games with him. I wanted to get him attracted in me once more not irritate him!

A good way to bear him in my grasp was to let him recognize that I was attainable but not that easy to get. You know what they say - we constantly want what we can't get. When the moment was right I started to flirt with him again. But I also socialized with friends to show him that I can have a good time without him. I always kept it very innocent. And to keep him motivated and interested in me I showed him that I was available.

STEP 3 - Avoid Desperation

One thing that will kill your chances of getting your husband back is acting desperate. Even though I wanted him back really badly, I in no way showed him that side of me. I pretended to play things cool and tried to let him see that I was coping with the breakup If I had acted needy and explained my undying love for him, he would have seen me as weak and insecure - and that is a complete put-off for any man.

Whenever I noticed my husband looking at me, or felt like he was staring at me, I would casually glance at him out of the corner of my eye. My provocative stare let him sense that I was thinking of him, but that it would take more than him simply looking at me to get me back.

STEP 4 - Remind Him Of The Good Times

In getting my husband back I tried to remind him of the good moments we had spent hand in hand These memories let him catch on how good our relationship was. I avoided bringing up any issues or bad memories in the marriage, as I knew it would only hurt him and lead to another argument, which I did not want.

These four measures are some of the things that I did to get back my husband before he moved on.

If you have just experienced a divorce or rough patch in your marriage and wanting to get back your husband, then perhaps you need to a full step-by-step plan than many women have used to get back their husbands. It is guide that I used when to get back my husband. And it certainly helped us learn to communicate better and resolve issues sooner than they got out of hand. So try it out...