If you are a woman who has recently gone through a breakup, then you need to take a deep breath and get your head together. Hopefully, you have not done things you will regret such as begging your ex to take you back, stalking him or text messaging or phoning him like crazy. All of these things are ineffective methods of how to get a man back and will only serve to drive your ex further and further away.

If you have engaged in these methods of action, stop right now. The very next thing you need to do is write him a short letter. While you may be thinking this is contradictory information, it actually is the first step in the plan of how to get a man back.

Write a short letter acknowledging the fact that you have been acting crazy, but you now realize that the breakup was something that was inevitable and probably was best for both of you. Then, sign your name and send it to him. That's it. Then, the ball is in his court.

The main thing for you to remember is to not contact him in any way, or even try to run into him at all. Keep your distance. Let him think you are totally cool with his decision to end it all, and you agree wholeheartedly with it. Let him think you are moving on without him.

Once he sees that you are serious about agreeing that the breakup was the best decision for both of you, he will begin to think about what he has done. Let him contemplate life without you. Even if you want to call him, text him, or try to see him, do not do it. Also, avoid getting drunk and losing your inhibitions when going through this phase. We all know what happens after a night of lonely drinking. We end up calling the ex lover.

If you want to know how to get a man back, follow the first piece of advice above. You will likely be amazed at how well this will work. Just be aware that it will take extreme willpower and commitment on your part, but in the end, it will be worth it.

This advice is just a start on the process of how to get a man back. What you really need to do before you make mistakes that will damage your chances of getting your man back is to get a plan!

A proven plan will guide you through this rough time in your life. Your chances of getting him back are good and you can be happy again, but you want to make sure that you know the correct way how to get a man back.

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