When you try to win your ex boyfriend back you may feel like you need to go begging on your hands and knees. You may feel that you have to lower yourself and lose every bit of pride that you have. The breakup may have gone a long way towards hurting your pride as it is, there is no need to further hurt your self image. There is no reason that you shouldn't be able to win your ex boyfriend back and still retain some dignity.

You might feel that the only way to get him back is to plead and beg him but there are things that you can do that won't make that necessary. In fact most experts would never even recommend that you do so. If you got dumped that was enough to hurt the way you look at yourself. If you broke up with him, then, realized you had made a huge mistake, then you may feel that you have to go crawling back to ask for forgiveness. That is most likely NOT what you need to do to win ex boyfriend back.

If he broke up with you, think about what it was that drew him to you in the first place. What was the attitude you had then? How was your spirit? If you want to rekindle the love that was once there, try putting all the elements back into place that caused the fire to light in the first place.

Whatever you do, let yourself be visible to him. Let him see that you are still the same person that he fell in love with once upon a time. Let him also know that you know he sees you. Be obvious that you are that person again. If he doesn't notice you, someone else just might and that might not be a bad thing. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. If there is another horse there, they may be more appreciative of what you have to offer.

If you broke up with him, and you believe that it was a mistake, let him know. Let him know that he has every right to be mad but tell him that you don't expect to have him come back. Tell him, "Whatever happens from this point is OK with me. I just wanted to let you know that I made a big mistake with you and I'm sorry if I hurt you." Ask for forgiveness, but don't beg for it. Begging is not a good way to win ex boyfriend back.

Also, don't ask to be reunited. You should let him know that you don't expect a second chance and you probably don't deserve one but you really wish that things had worked out differently. Say your piece and then walk away.

If he is truly interested in getting back together with you, or is curious about what you are trying to do, then let him make the move. It takes strength and character to admit a mistake and an equal amount of it to take the consequences. If he is as special as you believe him to be, he will notice what you have done just that and will want to be your boyfriend once again.

Unless you have some amazing love spells, you may find it a huge challenge to win your ex boyfriend back. If he is the one and the desired result is marriage or a life long relationship then it will happen. The trick is to get him involved and make it seem like he is pursuing you. Make him want you, again.