Many men cheat on their wives, but only a few would actually leave the marriage. With the boom in internet dating sites, there’s even more opportunities to meet other women and be elusive. The dating world is a jungle, and a woman can’t be too sure if that delightfully charming guy who responded to your ad is married or not. Married men sneaking around can be wonderfully thoughtful and loving. He can fill your inbox with sweet nothings, call you every minute all day long, showering you with lavish gifts, pleasuring you in every way imaginable in bed, and filling your heart with the wildest affirmations you’ve always dreamed of.

Sweet dreams and fantasies are made of these, and that’s exactly what it is to him: a fantasy. Are you getting the vibe that you could be dating a married man? Here are the give-aways that he is cheating on his wife: A woman’s intuition shouldn’t be ignored. if there’s a sudden nagging doubt about the man that you’re seeing, then trust your instincts. If you feel he is being secretive it may be time to listen to the alarm bells at the back of your mind. The married man suddenly turns evasive when topics such as kids, family, vacations and where he lives are casually mentioned.

Telltale signs like a guarded tone of voice and averting his eyes will usually give him away. You only have his cell phone number, not a home number and he insists that it’s best for him to always call you. It’s definitely a bad sign, especially when he doesn’t want you to call him at work and gives you some reason about how he’s always away from home. Classic body language signs are hard to miss, and when you ask him about past relationships or if he’s been married before, he tends to look away or cover his mouth. These nonverbal cues show that he’s holding back and doesn’t want to expose everything about himself.

There’s a good probability that he’s married if he never suggests that you two get away together. And if you DO get away, he avoids going to certain places, like a popular restaurant. It feels like there’s a certain place and part of town that he positively avoids when you’re together. When confronted about it, he’ll only give strange reasons—and maybe the next time you go somewhere, it’ll be in another state, or better yet, in another country. Another way to tell spot -on if he’s cheating on his wife is when he never runs out of cash. He could be filthy rich, or just covering up his tracks.

A credit card is something that could reveal his whereabouts to his wife, so paying for something with a card is something that he will absolutely not do. Sundays are the only days that you could relax at home and probably have a DVD marathon with him, but he’s never there. Any day of the week is ok, but never on a Sunday. Wonder not: Sunday is strictly family time.