How to attract African women and men

This article serves to give an idea and help hone proper skills of attracting and managing a relationship with an African hottie! Whether you stay in Europe, Asia, America or Africa, you certainly know African women are not easy to approach let alone get to their heart! However all hope is not lost, this guide will tell you what to do and what-not-to-do in order for you to get noticed and adored!

African Women Are Sophisticated

Yes, they are! Contrary to popular belief about Africa women, they’re more than what they seem! The reason why most men fail to make the grade with African women is that they overlook the fact African women are raised in a different environment. They are told as young girls to look for the right dude and realize the expectations of her family and nosy dad. As a result they may seem unfriendly to a man at first just to test his character. Believe me, before they do many things, they think about what their dad feels! The rule here is simple: You Have to Plan Your Game and give some respect to the prey, be confident but careful, African women don’t tolerate wimps!

Have guts to be a little rough!

Women in general look for a real man. One who is always in control and someone who she feels safe to be with and can take real care of her. The trick to being like this is simple but many people even authors of Romance books miss it, be tough with her! Don’t just be a walk in the path, show her you have a healthy life without her and she doesn’t have to get away with everything just because holds the upper hand (as a woman) at first. Whenever she says something you don’t understand, ask kindly for an explanation like a gentleman. If she says something and you have a good suggestion, tell her what you think and outline the pros and cons leaving enough space for her to make a decision for herself.

Now it’s past the time for good behavior, prepare to get a little naughty. Show her your rough character once in a while. African women want someone who seems not to notice them, they’ll seek acceptance from that person with a vengeance! By rough, I don’t mean hit her or do anything physically violent, no, just be tough and make her pay for the work you have to do to get to her heart! If she tries to test your patience tell her straight up you are not up for childish games and ignore her for a while. One thing you have to maintain here is her interest, when you do talk to her, give her a nice time so that she comes back! Going back and forth like this will send mixed signals and get you on top in no time!!

Play the psychology game like a Pro (Pickup Lines don’t work)!

One thing you always have to know is her weaknesses if you are to play the seduction game right. Know what she looks for and find her insecurities. Once you have an idea of the things she tries to overshadow, poke her ego once in a while. Don’t just play Mr. Nice Guy all the time, make her appreciate you and respect your word. What you have to do is tell her how something doesn’t fit her perfectly, mess with her head, vaguely diss her voice, her taste, etc. Overdoing this will lead to tragic results, it’s an art that has to be mastered! This is important because you want to make her feel special and loved, right? Doing this will give your kind and honest compliments power they never had before! Imagine how happy you get when you are told you rock by someone who can be painfully critical at times! Tell her she’s got good taste, how beautiful her voice is today, how strikingly beautiful she’s becoming these days and she’ll never leave you for sometime!

Give back the happiness that she gives you

A real man always gives back the love that a woman gives him. Be gentle once you are in but maintain your status as a real man so you’ll become, a real gentleman! African women are delicate, one slip up and they’ll go back in their shell and look for someone she can look up to, who has got more vibe. The methods I have outlined here are just some of the many ways by which you can get any chick madly in love with you. There are many others but the important thing is that you get the skill by testing the waters. Nothing beats experience when it comes to managing relationships. Good luck in your endeavor!

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