"What to do to get my ex back" can become a constant question after experiencing a break up. You often experience a myriad of painful emotions. You may feel depressed, anxious, and sad. You may miss them very much and wonder what is the best way to get back together. If you find yourself obsessing over the relationship then you need to take some steps towards solving the problem and getting back together again.

There is a lot of information on the internet and even courses on how to get your ex back. Although these can provide a lot of useful information, heeding your instincts on how to handle a break up can make a big difference. By following the simple advice contained in this article can give you the best chance of getting back with that special person.

The first thing to do is look at how you have been behaving. Does your behavior make your ex want to be with you? If not, you need to hold back you anger, your hurt and your feelings of being the victim. This will only serve to get in the way of getting back together. Do need argue, shout, or nag. If arguments are raised each time you see each other, then each of you will dread the thought of being together.

Do not play games that involve lying, tricking, or trying to make your ex jealous. These types of games are very common with couples but rarely solve any problems or help the relationship. If you manipulate the relationship by acting like care a lot or that you do not care at all may give you a sense of power or control but will not work in your favor in the long run. Trying to make your ex jealous that you are with another person can also often work against you. Your ex may feel that you have moved on and will also do the same.

Do not be mean or vindictive. After a break up it is very common to feel hurt and angry. Often that hurt and anger can turn into a meanness that is directed towards your ex. In reality, being mean or vindictive is really just masking your feelings of hurt and will get in the way of getting back together.

The best secret to getting your ex back is putting your best forward with your behavior and intentions. He or she will see that person that attracted them to be with you in the first place. They will be able to miss you and have the chance to get back together with you. These simple steps are the initial steps I took when getting back with my ex. I was able to get back together again by following the step by step guide in The Magic of Making Up. It was magic to my relationship and can be for yours.