There are some things we do even without realizing that put off the men in our lives. When you know what these things are, you will be able to avoid them so that your man does not end up hating you. Here are they:

1. Trying to change him

It is not possible to create a custom-built man. When you try to change your man to fit your own requirements, you will end up earning his hatred instead.

2. Comparing him with other people

When you compare your man with someone else, e.g. your ex, you won't make him try to improve. In case you have to make any comparison at all, then it should only be something that shows he is better.

3. Pressing him on a particular topic

In general, men like to solve issues, so your man may not want to discuss a topic that he is still trying to solve.

4. Failure to keep your part of agreements

When you are used to adjusting agreements to fit your own individual preferences, your man will hate you for it.

5. Holding back your feelings

Although we tend to be free at sharing our feelings, perhaps this has not been the case in your situation. When your man has to pry you open every time in order for you to show your real emotions, he won't enjoy it.

6. Making fun of his interests

Although your man may have a hobby that you do not like, you should not try to make him leave it by making fun of, or looking down on it. You should also not press him to pick up your hobbies instead, as you will be essentially saying that you are better than him.

7. Jealousy

When you do not seem to want his attention to wander elsewhere, you won't make him see how much you love him. This will simply show your own insecurity.

8. Gossip

You are mistaken if you think that he will appreciate it when you talk to others about him, no matter how positive you comments may be.

9. Nagging

You may have a very genuine need, but when you keep talking to him about it, you will just put him off instead.

10. Interruption

When you just seem to be waiting for an opportunity to jump in and tell your own story as your man talks, he won't take it kindly. Give him a listening ear and he will appreciate you.

11. Being preoccupied with your appearance

Your man undoubtedly likes you to look pretty. However, the fact that he is with you shows that he already likes the way you look and being too concerned about the way you look won't win any more of his heart. It is even worse when you spend lots of time in front of the mirror but still come looking the same.