If you are like most men, you throw your hands up in confusion and ask: "What do women ACTUALLY want?" That's because women do things that completely disagree with what they say they want. I have found this to be true of women. So follow along as I show you relationship advice for men on how to sustain a long-lasting relationship and give women what they really want.

One way to preserve a long-term relationship is to find out what women actually desire and give it to them. Observe carefully the choices they make, not what they say. For example, when you ask women what kind of men they want, they will say someone who is caring and who would pamper them. In reality, most of them end up with men, who while being caring, teases the heck out of them.

It is right. No matter what they may say, women like men who do not only have a sense of humor, but who also tease them without insulting them. If you have a sense of humor, you would of course attract women. Tease them along with your humor and you are a winner with women. The key to reaching a woman's heart is understanding the difference between what they say and what they do.

However, once you reach a woman's heart you must stay there. One way to stay in a woman's heart is never to come across as being needy. A man who is needy lacks confidence, and women are not attracted to diffident men. So while you may be caring and considerate, if you lack confidence, you would lose with women.

But you may ask: Why do women say they want something and act differently? In a woman's general make-up lies the answer. Women are guided by their sub-conscious thoughts. For example, when a woman says she wants a man who is sensitive to her needs, her sub-conscious thoughts are: Can this man make a good dad? Would he make a good provider for me and my kids? So she goes ahead to choose a man who fits the description of her sub-conscious thoughts.

Can you work out what her innermost thoughts would be when she says she wants something? If you can figure it out and provide it for her, then you will win with your woman.