So you screwed up and now find yourself in the awful position of trying to find out how to get back with your girlfriend. Well, the easiest thing to do is start with "I'm sorry." Most likely you don't have much else going for you at the moment. You messed up the relationship – You broke a "rool"; and now you need to make sure you don't mess anything else up. If you aren't used to apologizing - to saying that you're sorry then this is going to help you learn how to get back with your girlfriend.

The first part in how to get back with your girlfriend is to apologize. The best way to do that is by following a very simple plan. Show Remorse, Ask For Forgiveness, Promise that it won't happen again, and Make It Up To Her.

THE DETAILS:

First step in your plan on how to get back with your girlfriend: you have to show that you feel bad about it. You have to show some remorse. This is no time to be the macho tough guy. That doesn't mean that you have to cry or anything. Just look dumb and look down. Look like you are too ashamed to look her in the eye. Don't try and look cute. You will most likely fail and somehow she'll know. They always do. (This works best when you really ARE sorry!)

The second step in learning how to get back with your girlfriend is ask her for forgiveness. Do your best to be sincere. When you want to know how to get back together with your girlfriend you need to know that they are expecting you to be somewhat less than sincere. If you can't be sincere you need to be a really good actor and do the rest of the things really well.

Next step in learning how to get back with your girlfriend is to let her know that you aren't ever going to do that particular thing again. This will be a hard thing to do because, being male, you are far from perfect. It's hard to tell someone that we aren't going to screw up again. It seems to come naturally. You can't say, "I'll try" either. You have to commit to not doing that again. You will make mistakes again, you just have to keep from making that particular one again. Not if you want to keep your girlfriend!

Even though you likely will you have to sell her on it. Cap it off your apology with a nice treat....a fancy dinner somewhere. Buy her something nice. You can't buy love but you can buy a little bit of time and if you have done everything else correctly this should put a nice little bow on it all. Go all out. It may be obvious what you are trying to do but it may very well be worth it as they see what you are willing to put yourself through to impress her. The more it looks like you are really trying to get back together and that you are truly sorry for what you have done, the better your chances at knowing how to get back with your girlfriend will work.