Do you think you would really enjoy your sex life if you introduced dirty talk to your partner in the bedroom? If you believe this, then it is probably true. Many couples turn to dirty talk in the bedroom and it really does spice things up. However, many people do not talk dirty in the bedroom and do you know why? Simply because they are not sure what their lover is going to think when they start talking dirty.

Is that dirty talk going to unleash your partner desire? Perhaps they will lie down, close their eyes and start messing around with their…lips. Or are they going to turn bright red and look at you in a confused state of mind?

The truth is, you never really know what is going to happen, unless you try…or at least, hint at the dirty talk just a little bit.

You will be able to do a number of different things in order to introduce dirty talk to your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife without offending them. Start by talking softly and not being too naughty all at once. You could start out by teasing just a bit, without using any obscene words and seeing where it takes you.

Find out if your love is ready for some dirty talk:

1. When you are watching television together, try telling him or her saucy excerpt that you read from somewhere. Look at their reactions and see what they do. If they straighten up, look around and show that they are interested, then continue. However, if they tell you how gross it is, then you should leave all comments behind.

2. If your partner does not want to talk dirty, then you will realize it. If your partner likes what you are talking about, then by all means, continue talking dirty by telling them what you like.

3. Here is one of the biggest tricks in the book that many of us forget about. Text them some dirty talk. Your partner is going to read the text you sent and have the time to understand where you are coming from. You will be able to tell if they are into dirty talk by the comment they sent back. If it turns out that they are shocked, then you will be able to claim a moment of weirdness and insanity. If they are not able to see your eyes, then they will never know that this was not one of your weird moments of boredom and insanity.