Dirty talking is a topic that may be approached by both men and women with some caution in the beginning. But once past the initial hurdles, you probably liked the results so much, you are eager to steam ahead!

Dirty talking is simple once you get the hang of it. If you are someone who really enjoys dirty talking, you might be looking for ways to take it to a new level. If you are innovative, you will keep the freshness in your relationship alive.

1. Seek Out Activities That Compliment Dirty Talking:

• Feed each other a plate of oysters or any other sensuous feeling finger food.

• Try slow dirty dancing to some raunchy music.

• Go shopping together for sex toys; either online or in a shop.

• The point is to combine your dirty talk with erotic activities that do not immediately lead to sex.

• Your talk will highlight what you are doing and vice versa and it will magnify the effect each has on you.

• As you get excited, make yourselves wait and let your anticipation of the final act drive you wild.

2. Keep A Fantasy Box:

• Both you and your lover can jot down your fantasies as and when they occur on slips of paper and drop it into a box.

• When you feel like enacting one, pick one at random or choose one together.

• Whether you plan it out in advance and simmer while you wait for it to happen; or decide to surprise your partner with it, can depend on your mood!

3. Try Out Role Play And Costumes:

• Putting on a new identity can bring in a new dimension to dirty talking.

• When you don a new role you can let your alter ego take on a new life and talk and act like an entirely different person.

• When you step into your character’s role you can drop your inhibitions if you and your partner accept that you are only playing a part.

• Something that is normally forbidden or formidable for you can be safely enacted by your role without it being taken out of context.

• If you like role play, play it to the hilt – costumes, wigs, different voices… Explore all the possibilities.

Set A Safe Ground:

• It is very, very important to figure out what is acceptable and what is not, between you and your lover before you start dirty talking.

• Even so, there may be words or fantasies that slip out inadvertently to upset one or the other.

• Agree to stay open minded and to discuss and sort out any misgivings that may come out of such issues.

If you have honesty and trust in your relationship, it is easy to come up with ideas to make dirty talking more exciting. The rewards are likely to make you even more creative in the future!