What do you aim to do when you dirty talk? You might have set out a scenario in your mind. You might have practiced it on your self. Or you might just try it on your partner on impulse. But surely, you do it for a reason...

Have you ever thought about why you do it? You do it to enhance pleasure, of course; both yours, as well as your partner’s.

Once you have gotten over your initial reluctance and nervousness, your doubts disappear and you start wanting to explore the full potential of dirty talking. To do this, you have to keep venturing out into newer territory to beat the boredom of doing the same thing again and again.

Tips To Help You Expand Your Dirty Talk Boundaries:

1. Make the surroundings feel right. Scented candles, dim lights, erotic music, sexy lingerie… All these are subtle invitations that will get you both in the mood. Once you are in the mood, you are more likely to be sexually adventurous.

2. Make each other feel special with sexy compliments. Tease him and flirt with him till he is totally relaxed and tuned into you. You can try dancing or cuddling when you do this, to make this part more effective.

3. Turn up the heat by linking actions to words. Start describing what you are doing to him or how you are reacting to what he is doing. Take his hand and put it on your body and as he does it, describe what he is doing to you and how it feels or how excited it is making you feel.

4. Get your partner involved in the action. Tell him you are going to do something you know he really enjoys. Ask him if he wants it, but don’t actually do it till you have him begging for it! While you are doing it, ask him if he likes it, if he wants it harder, if he wants more of it… He will start talking without even thinking about it.

5. Don’t forget that the gasps and moans and whispers you make when you are being pleasured are also intensely erotic music to his ears. You can think of it as non verbal dirty talk.

6. Once you have reached your level of comfort, start introducing dirtier words and phrases. Take the time and effort to increase your vocabulary. Not only will this make it more exciting, you will also give your partner permission to venture out into newer realms.

7. Don’t restrict dirty talking to just within your bedroom walls. Take it out into other areas of your life and use it to flirt in a public place; tease in a car; or use it in any way you can think of. The possibilities are endless.