In today’s busy world most of the couples do not find much time for each other. Everyone has a hectic life. There is the individual’s career and other activities to engage into. Couples these days hardly spend quality time together. They come home tired and doze off to sleep. By the end of the day you are so tired that you do not speak much and just prefer to get a sound sleep. Such busy life affects a relationship immensely. You do not get time to talk to each other and this somewhere creates a gap between you and your partner. Your happy and interesting relationship fades to an unhappy and unenthusiastic relationship. A kind of hollowness is formed in your marriage. That love and charm is lost that you experienced earlier.

It is true that one cannot leave his or her job as it is essential and impractical. But there are always alternatives present to make up for the loss that we need to realize and find out. There are numerous ways to make up for the time you do not get to spend with each other. You just have to give a little strain to your brain and get ideas to fill the gap that is being formed between you and your partner.

There is one wonderful way for filling up such gap and that is making a coupon book. Create a coupon book with messages to your lover and present it to him when he returns home tired. Write what you think about him and what you feel for him. Fill it up with love messages he will always remember and feel very close to you. Your message need not be very long as it will become boring and look like an exaggeration. Moreover your partner will be too tired to read a long story. If you will be in his place you too will not like to read long messages as you would like to sleep. Make it short and sweet. Write something you wanted to tell him and did not get time to share your feelings. Just express your love in words. Be sure to be honest, anything put on will not be realistic and will not build true emotions. This will not only make him happy but also do something in return for you whenever he gets time. Never be negative in your thoughts and messages. It will put more stress on him instead of relaxing him. Positive and sweet words spoken to a man give great pleasure and relax that person. The messages you convey to him through the coupon book have the same effect of the spoken words.

Your coupon book should be colorful and striking. Make it colorful with beautiful picture that relax the mind. You could also stick small photographs of you two in the coupon book. You could also draw a cute Garfield or Mickey Mouse if you are good in drawing or simply stick some pictures of your favorite cartoons. Expressing love in such a way is a good exercise for your relationship. It helps you to keep the relationship evergreen. Conveying your thoughts to each other in such a way helps you build a strong bond and no matter what problems you face in life you find your partner standing near you at times of happiness and grief.