Are you going around looking for answers to an all important question, "I want my husband back?" It is not easy to let go of a marriage even after you have moved out. Most of seem to forget how bad things were once we have parted ways. Think the whole thing through before you really start meaning" I want my husband back".

Look back into your reasons for splitting. What is it that drove you out of the marriage? Whose fault was it, yours, his or both of you? At times it is difficult to say exactly what went wrong as small things add up.

If the breakup was not the result of a major incident like an affair, then there are good chances that your refrain of" I want my husband back" will have a positive result.

If the reason behind your break up was something major and painful, then it might be just a little difficult to get back together. It is still a possibility if both of you are prepared to work towards it.

You may be saying "I want my husband back", but your husband may just not be interested enough to get back together. This may surprise you, but it is quite possible.

This may not mean that he has stopped caring for you. It could be that he is no longer prepared to look the other way as far as the problems in your relationship go. You may still have a chance of getting him back.

You can persuade him to give it a shot. May be both of you could read a book on marriage counseling together. It could be a revelation if you discuss what you are reading in context to your marriage.

Both of you could visit a marriage counselor together. Incase your husband is not prepared to do so, don’t lose heart. You can still work at it, by attending the counseling sessions alone and then using the techniques learnt there, at home.

You can involve him directly by telling him about these techniques or may be indirectly by your actions. Use them every time you are together. Even if he does not respond to all your working alone. It will help you build your confidence and feel good about it.

Since you are attending these sessions alone you may also use this opportunity to work out certain problems, which you may be hesitant about otherwise.

All this hard work may pay off quicker than you hope. Soon instead of saying "I want my husband back" you may be heard saying "I got my husband back."