You may feel like your life will never be the same because you have just broken up with the man you love. You are having trouble stop crying and you are very sad. You keep going over and over in your mind how will you live with out him. But it is not too late for you, you can be happy again. You have a good chance of getting him back if you do not make the mistakes most women make shortly after a break up.

We are going to discuss 3 of the most common mistakes that you want to avoid if you are serious about getting him back. But the most important thing you need to do is get a plan on how to win him back.

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Now, here are 3 common mistakes you want to avoid.

1. Do Not Constantly Try To Contact Him.

You may be having trouble controlling your emotions and you just want to try to make things right in your relationship. So what you do is one of the biggest mistake you can do, you constantly try to contact your ex by calling, emailing of trying to text message him over and over again.

You may be doing this so much that it has become border-line stalking. This will push him further away and it makes you look very needy. This becomes counter-productive because more you do it the less chance of have of getting him back. You could better spend your time getting your emotions under control and getting a proven plan that will help guide you through this rough time in your life.

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2. Do Not Blame Him For The Break Up.

You want to get your ex back, not to get some satisfaction of blaming him for the break up, even though it may be his fault. At this point in time it is not important who is the blame, you just want to get him back now.

Really and I know this may sound a little odd, the best thing you can do is to agree with the break up. This will show him that you have your emotions under control and that you are not needy.

3. The Best Advice Is Not To Take Bad Advice.

Your friends and family members may want to give you are kinds of advice about winning him back but they do not have the experience in relationship repair that your relationship needs. They may mean well but do you want to take the chance of losing the man that you love because of bad advice?

You do not have to take the bad advice of friends and family members because that is help for you.

You can get him back, it is very possible. You can be back with him and you can enjoy your relationship and be happy again. Do not make the 3 mistakes that I have listed above, but do get a proven plan on getting him back. You can win him back and be happy again!