First of all, I am not against the PUA community since I don't like them but I am against the PUA training techniques that truly do not assist guys with ladies for the long run.

Here are some lessons I have learned from the pickup community.

1. Women turn out to be numbers instead of individuals.

As I started massively approaching ladies, my perception of them changed. Ladies began to grow to be objects. They became 7.5's or 8.3's on a scale from 1 to 10. It became about the physical beauty instead of the inner beauty that made a girl attractive.

2. You start to not believe in the idea of love.

That is extremely true. Whenever you approach so numerous females, it all becomes a game. It will become about numbers. It no longer gets concerning the Person. Thus, you begin to not believe in the concept of love. That is a really empty experience regardless of how numerous ladies you interact with.

3. Pickup will become your life.

It might sound exciting to have a existence where you just pick up and go out with women. But it will become really empty in the lengthy run. You lose out about the opportunities life has to provide. You lose out on hobbies and passions that you simply could have developed. I have seen a lot of folks inside the pickup community take the pickup way too seriously in their lives.

No matter how many pickup gurus try to make you think that their pickup teachings work, I can tell you that it didn't give a positive impact with ladies within the long run.

On the other hand, I've noticed that you just can STILL be successful with females by truly looking deep inside of you and unlocking the real talents and qualities from within.

From now on, bring out your true self to truly have fun and have success with ladies.