HOW TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE WHEN HE WANTS SEX ALL THE TIME

There are times in a relationship that you know you want to continue in the relationship but your husband seem to be making unreasonable demand on you. He might have been very good in some aspects of the marriage and you wouldn’t want to give up for anything. But the problem had always been about sex. Here are some few tips on what you can do to save your marriage. They are arranged in order of priority.

First, don’t criticize his feelings about sex. In other words, don’t let your husband feel that he loves sex in an unusual manner. Everyman loves sex and the desire for it can be strong in different men for different reasons. Don’t abuse his desire to have sex with you and don’t yell at him for demanding it, after all you are married. And if you don’t want him to look for satisfaction elsewhere you must have to know how to manage him. You must have the right attitude here.

Secondly, discuss with your husband about scheduling time for sex. Many men will be happy if you can tell them when you want sex and schedule a time for it, even if it is everyday. It takes the pressure off the man and he will be happy to know that no matter what happened at the scheduled time, he will have his way. All you have to do is to condition yourself also for such a time so you won’t feel used. A man’s thinking pattern allows him to have sex whenever the desire comes.

Thirdly, if you can be successful doing the first two, then you can let him know your feelings about having sex all the time. You need to really get the first two steps in place before you can be successful at the third step. When the man feels he can now have his way all the time, you can start telling him your feelings about it. You have to come up with very good reasons why you can’t cope with his demand all the time. And your reasons must not attack his personality. Your explanation might include your mood swings, the children and the stress of taking care of them (if you have children) and maybe you want more foreplay before sex. But your reasons must not attack his desire to have you.

Finally, you have to be patient as you watch him change in his attitude towards sex. For some men, their attitude to sex changes with time especially after middle age. So, don’t be surprised the change might come earlier than you expected. Wishing you the best in your marriage. With these few steps I believe you can save your marriage.