What Makes A Good Lover?

Social IssuesSexuality

  • Author Jason Rase
  • Published September 14, 2007
  • Word count 875

Want to give your darling a wild, wild time in the bed?

Craving to reach newer heights of sexual gratification?

Does making the right moves at the right time always create an amazing lover out of an ordinary man?

These questions always loom large in the minds of young hot-blooded couples. And why just the young ones? The old birds too may look for the exact answer to add that special zing to their sex lives. So, are you all geared up to turn your bed into some adventurous playfield? Just go through the article for making your nights remarkable.

Start the game of lovemaking early in the night, preferably in the evening, because you may need a good sleep after an hour of hot sex.

It’s not necessary that a person labeled as a ‘good lover’ will click with anybody and everybody. The way you make love to someone or the sexy whispers you pour into her ear may not go too well with another person. One woman’s turn ons can be turn off in case of the others. So, try to know her, her likings and her intimate desires before taking her to the bed. Developing chemistry with your lover is essential.

Concentrate on one partner at a time. Don’t try to sleep around with several people simultaneously. Otherwise, you may end up applying the same sexual techniques on everybody. This can result to disastrous consequences. The matters of sex and sexuality are so subjective and vary so much from person to person that if you start generalizing them, you may hit the roadblock.

Think about your past sexual encounters and how your partners responded to your various sexual advances. Previous experiences play a significant role in forming the future relationships. Always try to learn from your past mistakes.

For indulging into some mind-blowing sexual activities, choose the time when your partner is absolutely free and select the place where she can be most comfortable.

Don’t get robotic and monotonous while making love. Ignite the passion by showering compliments on her various body parts. Ask her affectionately what she likes the most about your body.

Keep on talking on arousing topics while having sex. Otherwise, you and your partner won’t be able to obtain the ultimate pleasure of sex and it will become a dull and routine activity.

Don’t forget to take necessary precautions before doing it. Having condoms and other such stuffs means that you are a propagator of safe sex and this quality of yours can surely give your partner instant relief from all tensions that may arise after spending a stimulating session of sex.

Never force yourself on her, begin in a slow and seductive way and then, catch the momentum gradually.

Caress her whole body bit by bit; kiss every inch part of her body. Try to master the art of kissing. You should make her feel like a princess.

You must shed all your inhibitions once you jump into the bed with your partner.

Indulge yourselves into lots of foreplay. Some exciting moments of foreplay can certainly pave the way for great sex.

You must get into the act only if you feel the burning passion within you and also try to pay respect to her moods.

Explore each other’s bodies little by little. Undress yourself and your partner step by step. Don’t take all your clothes off at one go. Make the whole session as prolonged as possible.

Try to read her body language. Do the things that are giving her maximum pleasure again and again.

Be open to try out new and unique things. Don’t have sex just for the heck of it. Make it an exhilarating adventure.

Don’t make the bed your sole playground. Try the sofa, bathtub or even the floor. Outdoors too can be a good option.

Cleaning your face, body and hands is essential before you kick off action. Spray the perfume that makes her crazy for you. Both of you can enjoy a shower together before initiating the actual action.

Keep on whispering sweet and sexy (sometimes, dirty too!) notes into her ears. Use words that stimulate her the most. Make her giggle too often.

As words sometimes create wonder before lovemaking, read out a sensuous novel to excite her mind.

Try to experiment new positions. It will add spice to your sex life.

Observe each of her moves and moans minutely.

Floor her with your attitude - the attitude of an honest and genuine lover. Be spontaneous in all your actions.

Give her adequate time to get her emotionally connected with you. Massage her legs and play with her hairs to make your beloved stirred.

As women’s hormone level is highest in the evening, they enjoy sex most during those hours. So, make yourself available at that period.

Try to keep yourself awake after making love, so that she gets the pleasure of cuddling her man.

Lastly, ask her whether she is satisfied. Ask yourself too, because a dissatisfied person can never satisfy his partner.

So, are you all set to enjoy a blissful sex life? If yes, then what’s the use of wasting any more time…ENJOY!

Jason Rase provides Gay Group Sex services and Bondage Sex dating online.

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