In essence, a one night stand or sex for just one night is a dream of many people on vacation and of not completely sexually satisfied megapolis residents. In other words those who have a zero chance of meeting the accomplice of the night-time adventure the next day at the grocery store you usually shop at. Talks about how only men dream about sex per se, and women dream strictly about laundry and diapers are a complete nonsense. Girls too sometimes want simple animal joy of sex without unnecessary conversations and subsequent meetings. If you are ready for sexual heroic deeds of such nature take note of the following advice.

So where would you look for a girl? Obviously not on the street, not on the subway, and not at a corporate party of the company you work for. In general any entertaining relaxing establishment like a bar or dance club will work. You are already there? Well, then look for a target. A single one of course. And an ideal one. For example, women with low self-esteem. Surprisingly enough, it is probably the best looking of all girls. So beautiful that men are too scared to approach her fearing she will turn them down. So do not follow their example. A very promising category is the category of the rejected and hurt girls. Her husband cheated on her, her lover dumped her, in other words the girl must pay back and self-satisfy herself in sex. So go ahead and try to demonstrate the maximum confidence in yourself and the results of the approaching night. Pay attention to girls who act confident about their appearance. The main indicator is the way they dress. Tight, bright, and short – this is the type to avoid. Unfortunately, sometimes there are also girls that dream to find their prince charming in the pub and get engaged with him right away. So if she starts talking about vacations together and the perfect curtain colors, remember of something very important that unexpectedly came up and retreat. One more category is the girls that fall too fast into your embrace - all they want is just have fun at your expense. Unfortunately, it's pretty hard to identify them. Therefore just treat such blunders philosophically and don't get hung up on it.

According to the international survey carried out in the USA and a number of developed European countries (the participants were 500 women and 300 men) 2/3 of women have had a one night stand at least once in their life. The majority was not too impressed with the results of such sexual experiments. Men had different statistics. More than half of those who participated in such sex activity claimed that it was way more fascinating than with a regular partner. For most women one night stand happened only once or twice in their life. Only 30% practice such relationship once or twice a month, 5% - once a month, and only 1% - regularly every weekend. However, the majority of women polled (64%) consider it quite an acceptable form of sexual interaction, and 17% presume that it would be more pleasurable than with a regular partner. For a lot of people though, the next day is the day of disappointment. 14% call all sex experiments unsuccessful, and 62% call unsuccessful the majority of such experiments. 40% of men meanwhile claim that they are ready for such sexual heroic deeds at any time. And 49% of polled men assure that they never felt disappointed with the results of such interactions. Nonetheless, 28% of men have a quite low opinion of women who agree to have a one night stand. Women who feel the same way about men who have one night stands amount to 48%. And 29% of them claim they would change their opinion about their girlfriend to the worse if they found out she has had or is capable of having such sexual relationship.

Now that you found the woman, it is important that she finds you. The research reassures - girls make the decision whether a man is interesting (and consequently suitable for sex) in the first 30-90 seconds of communicating. If she hasn't lost her interest in you after that amount of time, consider it a score in your favor. The main thing is not to make a mess of things from now on.

A couple of unobtrusive and double-meaning compliments are great. But not more than that. If she even for a second gets an idea that she caught you, she will immediately start building plans for the future and will ultimately realize that having sex immediately is not the best start for this round. By the way sex statistics indicates that the chance of continuing the relationship after a one night stand does not exceed 1%, in spite of how spectacular the experience was. Try to adjust to her manner of speaking - slang, typical words, exclamations, gestures and so on. Make sure she has some alcohol for further relaxation. And no smart conversations about Schopenhauer-Monet-Heidegger. You can mention Freud and even then strictly in sexual context. For more persuasiveness and hypnotic effect do not weaken the eye contact. Only eyes to eyes! Along with everything else, it will distract her from unnecessary thoughts about the surrounding world and other trifles. Tactile contacts and dancing are very beneficial. As soon as she answers affirmatively to the invitation to move to the nearby bar or dance club, your chances for sex are approaching 90%. However, if after visiting the next-door bar/dancing she suggests to move to another one, then most likely you can forget about sex.

The ideal place for a one night stand is a hotel. There are motels that actually specialize in renting out rooms to passionate lovers for just one, two, or three hours.

If due to the excitement you all of a sudden develop some physiological problems, you can forget about having sex that night. No one is going to wait or feel sorry for you. Extreme Kamasutra positions with an unfamiliar partner are not very promising and are potentially dangerous. Also you can forget about taking initiative! Unless you are ok with missing out on a chance to learn a lot of new things about how other people do it. Getting your permanent partner to experiment can be quite problematical. And girls usually agree to have a one night stand so that they could implement into life their secret sexual fantasies.

As far as the risk of catching an STD, we don't think there should be any special explanations... Although if a girl is not opposed to not using a condom, be extremely careful. She could have been not opposed the previous time too. And you can catch some filthy disease easily even while having oral sex.

Yes, a one night stand is a one-time sex experience, the participants of which part with each other as easy as they met. But do not rely on the girl to share the same rules of this game. You wake up and she is already gone, just crumpled sheets and a light smell of her perfume is the evidence that you didn't just dream about last night. Pardon, but that is just Hollywood. Reality is way more mundane. So just remember a few rules. You really don't need to know her name. Honey, babe, sugar, something appropriate and with her permission will do the job. And she doesn't need to know your name either, let alone your last name. So do not go through her purse when she went into the bathroom. The less you know, the better you sleep at night. And make sure your documents are in some inaccessible to strangers place. Do not forget about the proverb: "The early bird gets the worm" (especially if you ended up on her territory). In ideal case scenario, you should get up before she does. Above all to avoid stupid questions like: "How was last night?", "Would you like a cup of coffee?", and "Would you like to meet up tonight?" If she actually woke up while you were trying to escape, the stupidest thing you can say is: "Let's remain friends". What friends are you talking about? You were strangers before and you will remain such. Do not exchange phone numbers to avoid the temptation.

So this give you an idea about what a one night stand is and what rules you should follow to make it a pleasant experience for both of you. Go ahead and try this out, I bet you will not be disappointed!