It is a reality that the majority of guys apparently do not notice and if they do recognize, they just do not do something about that knowledge. If guys will to work on it, the world can be a lot better with more contented women out there.

Mind to make a guess? Which is the most sensitive and crucial erotic organ (yet completely neglected by most men) on a woman's body, that if correctly stimulated would provide her the most overwhelming orgasm? Is it her clitoris or her G spot?

Well, it is her thoughts, her imaginations, and her feelings of chemistry with the guy that makes her sexually excited. So, here you are, it is HER BRAIN that is the most important and powerful sex organ in a woman's body.

With this fact, the question now arises is: "How do I sexually stimulate her B Spot?"

(1) Feeling, Not Action

One of the reasons that couples start to think they are getting into a rut or that their sex lives rapidly become boring over time, is that they get too focused on what they are doing instead of what they are feeling. Clothes off, some kissing here, a little breast stroking there, giving a little oral sex and then proceed into the intercourse stage, the same procedure being done over a hundred times and needless to say things can get dull. It often happens that after you have had sex with your partner a dozen times, to easily start taking for granted about what she needs to be sexually aroused.

Love can never become boring if you inject the feelings of intimacy into your relationship, which is an infinite source of sexual pleasure and interest. When you are in love, it is always thrilling. Not all couples who are in love can translate that love into their sex life. It needs confidence, courage and intention to bring those intimate emotions into your sexual relationship.

Making the effort to connect with her and bringing her emotional world into the erotic world is most necessary to get her sexually crazy about you. Unfortunately, this is not the message that most guys get from the media. When men want to get turned on, they watch porn or gaze at hot girls in calendars or swimsuit magazines - there is nothing mentioned about her emotions at all.

However, women get sexually excited in a different way. You need to appreciate this truth and make an attempt to connect with her in a loving way - a ridiculously effective way to improve your sex life.

Here is how you can foster intimacy in your daily life with her:

(a) Eye contact

By looking into her eyes when she talks to you, you are showing interest in what she says and paying attention to her. This will make her feel appreciated as a woman so that when the moment comes she is less likely to resist what you want in bed.

(b) Touching

Touching in the form of kissing, massaging, stroking and caressing can help in the secretion of Oxytocin, the bonding chemical. Touching not for the purpose of foreplay or going into lovemaking creates a feeling of closeness. Try doing this for few days without sex can build up the tension that leads to stronger connection and more intense sexual encounter.

© Do something extraordinary

For example, if you notice that she is missing her parents or a close friend for quite some time, you can plan a small meeting for her. Call the respective person(s) and tell him/her or them your plan. Tell him/her or them that you want to surprise her and ask the person(s) involve coming over to your place not to let her know. This will show your partner how much you care. You will be surprised at how much your partner will be pleased about you for taking into consideration her needs and desires.

(d) Doing things together

Cooking a romantic dinner together provides chances for intimacy and closeness. When she is doing spring cleaning of the house, you can help to clean up certain sections of the house. Make an effort to experience and discover things together. Go and sign up for the yoga or dance class together.

(e) Buy each other sentimental gifts

This does not necessary have to be any expensive gift. It will be most effective if you can make her feel touched by choosing those gifts that show you clearly understand her needs.

(2) Talk To Her

Whispering sweet words into her ear, sending sexy text messages can keep your partner thinking about you all the time and increasing the connection between the both of you. Talking about your feelings or emotions, asking about hers, telling her how she is making you feel, describing what her skin feels like or what she smells like, telling her what you want her to do for you are also great ways to get real connection with her brain and make the sexual experience much more intense for her.

Women will tell you that most guys are totally silent in bed. Some will make an effort at "dirty talk" but only some really make an effort at connecting in some real way. If you are with a woman who likes to be talked to in this manner and if you do so, then you are exactly stimulating her brain and you will receive powerful results from her pleasure.

However, if you are uncomfortable with "chatting" during sex, you can communicate in other ways without words such as using touch, sigh, sounds and eye contact.

(3) Create the atmosphere and feel

A romantic setting certainly can stimulate her "B-Spot." The apparent way to do here is to light candles or adjust the bedroom lighting, lay out rose petals on the bed, play soft music, etc.

However, the setting does not have to be romantic. Moreover, not all men like that mushy stuff and neither do all women.

Making the choice to do it at some places can be thrilling to different couples. The risk of getting caught can make a public car park more sexually stimulating than those rose petals for some couples.

If she is an exhibitionist, all you have to do is to tell her to imagine and fantasize the place you enjoying making love with her. Yes, that is correct, can you still recall about what I mentioned earlier? Use your words again! This can take place before sex to set the scene.

Do remember that creating the setting is even more effective when it does not require a physical setting but rather an emotional one. If you can recollect about the kind of things that turn women on in the films/soap operas - forbidden love, romantic destiny, and wild passion - these are the things that you can create in her brain before entering the bedroom. This requires some imagination and effort.