We tend to focus on what women want in a man in bed but leave out the things that what women don't want a man to do in bed. Once you discover what women don't want in bed you can eliminate those things from your routine, and even if you are not doing everything perfect in the bedroom yet at least you won't be doing everything wrong!

Women do not want a man to compare her in bed to an ex, a woman in a movie, or a star in the movie "Forest Hump". Women are not all the same in bed and most are not over the top like some women in certain movies. Comparing her to an actress who is being told what to do and has been probably doing twenty scenes just to make it look like one long sexy scene is not fair.

And if you mention your ex in bed your woman may not be able to get that vision out of her head ever and be striving to be someone she's not just so she can please you. The pressure of that in bed is enough to cause her to not enjoy herself ever.

Women do not want to feel like must have an orgasm. Orgasms do not come as easily for women as they do for men, but they do come in the right atmosphere. Pressure to have an orgasm will only reduce a woman's chance of having one. So if your mission is to give her an orgasm and you tell her that or indicate that to her in any way, then you may be finding yourself disappointed, along with her.

Women do not want the same thing done to them every time in bed. If you have a routine that you to do her every night you are together then the elements of surprise and passion are greatly reduced to almost zero. Touch here, kiss there, lick here, and done. You want to keep an element of surprise and excitement in your routine by mixing it up and doing things you've never done before. She will enjoy it much more than the same old routine.

Women do not want a man to avoid the things she loves in bed. You should mix up your routine and try new things but don't avoid the things that she absolutely loves done to her! Those moves turn her on for a reason and she looks forward to them in the bedroom, so vary your routine but keep the classics that work very well.