Need help in figuring out if your guy gets aroused by what he sees, what he hears or how he is being touched? Read on to find out how you can turn him on so much that he comes crawling back to you for more.

(1) Stimulate him visually

A good way to turn him on visually is to have him make love in front of a mirror so he can see every erotic angle of each other’s bodies. You can also put a mirror at the side, parallel to his body while you give him oral sex. This is also a great turn on for him. You can arouse him during sex by wearing some sexy lingerie or even before lovemaking by wearing no underwear. You can tempt him by making him to watch you using a vibrator on your clitoris.

There are other ways to get him aroused visually. Keep the door open when you shower. Let him watch you dressing. You bend your body forward while you pull up your skirts and you arch your back while you hook your bra. You may not be able to remain fully clothed for long. You can ask him to help you buckle the ankle strap on your sandal. When he gets on his knees, you shift slightly so he can sneak a peek up your skirts. You can cut a pair of old jeans into a very revealing shorts with slits up the sides and you walk around the house in them during the weekend till he cannot control himself any longer. When writing down all these and picturing my girl doing all these to me, I am already starting to get hard on my own below my belt. So, all these visual seductions will have the same uplifting effect below your man’s belt as well.

(2) You give him that lustful look

It is often that the simplest things are always the best. This also applies to sex. The simplest gesture can be the sexiest one to him. You can run your fingers over your nipples and squeeze your breasts while holding eye contact with him. When you are about to have an orgasm, you stare into his eyes and hold his gaze. He will feel very close to you with this visual technique.

(3) Be flirtatious

You can try to recall how you flirted when you first met him. When you are on the dance floor, you snuggle up to him and throw him a sexy look. When you are out together with him, you touch him in a suggestive way. This can be very subtle, but it is very effective, because men like attention. But be careful not to overdo it. You have to give him enough time to build things up, so that you can be sure to have some heated romance later on.

(4) Get him go gaga with your dirty talk

Most men enjoy women who talk dirty. You describe to him what you are doing such as – "I am going to touch your ______" or you tell him how you feel such as – "I love it when you kiss my neck and squeeze my buttocks." You can spice things up by throwing in some short and sexy adjectives like hard, hot and wet. While pleasuring yourself, you call him to give full lurid details of what you are doing. It is both a turn on and a good sex education on female sexuality for him.

(5) You create some sexy noises

The right music can totally enhance your sexual experience. You play some wild drumbeat music and let the intense rhythm inspire you. This can be done by recording a list of sultry songs and play them during sex. You can then change your pace of stimulation or movement to match each tune. You can also pop an erotic film into the DVD player and let the sounds of orgy turn both of you on.

(6) Use the power of touching

Before having sex, take a hot shower together and rub each other’s bodies with salt scrub. The steam and rubbing action will stimulate the nerve endings and blood flow. While kissing him, you gently run your fingernails up and down the inside of his arms. This teasing and arousing sensation will make him want more. During lovemaking, you copy each other’s movements – if you caress his chest, he caresses your breasts; if you kiss his neck, and he kisses yours. This provides the ultimate feedback loop in helping to understand exactly how each other like to be touched.

Gently caressing of the genitals and nipples is also very stimulating to most men. To intensify his orgasm, you place 2 fingers an inch behind his testicles and you feel for a dent (the perineum). This area is a wonderful pleasure point. When he is about to climax, you massage the spot in a circular motion. Another way is to squeeze the base of his penis 5 seconds before he comes and then you release.

You can heighten the sensation of touching by blind-folding him. Next, you alternate using a cashmere glove, silk panties and a piece of leather to stroke his skin.

(7) Offer him some creative teasing

If you have very long hair, you loop a lock of it around the base of his testicles and gently pull towards you. An alternative way is to tie 2 or 3 knots in a nylon stocking and gently wrap it around the base of his penis. This slight tightening increases his sexual pleasure and the knots can stimulate your clitoris when you adopt the woman-on-top position.

(8) Tease him with your kisses

You kiss him tenderly for a few minutes and pull away, then go back in a minute and kiss him more lustily. His passion will build up with each kissing interlude. To drive him wild, you can also kiss the path for the back of his knees to the top of his thighs and then run your tongue along the crease where his thighs meet his pelvis. When you are half-way through enjoying your ice-cream, you ask him to close his eyes and guess the flavor of the ice-cream. On your first kiss, you lightly trace your tongue tip along his lips. If he is unable to pinpoint the flavor, you go deeper with your tongue.

(9) Tempt him with smell

When you take a shower, you rub your whole body with a great smelling scrub; then shave and clean up with a rich lotion. You put on a sexy lotion or perfume and maybe spray a tiny amount of it on his pillow. In case he may be allergic to certain smell, you can choose a perfume that he likes and spray it around your neck and as you lean in closer and whisper in his ears, he can smell you, which is a great turn on for him. Next time, when you make love with him, you light one special scented candle. After a few times, he will begin to link this fragrance to you and sex.

(10) Give him oral sex

Like women, men love oral sex. The opening at the tip of the penis is highly sensitive. You use the tip of your tongue to stimulate this spot. When he is getting hard, you use one hand to lift up his manhood to lick the underside of his shaft and then you move your head from side to side to cover more surface area. You then lick the skin between his balls and then lightly suck each one of them. Next, you lift his sack and flick your tongue on the crease of skin where the scrotum meets his body. To spice things up, you can also slip a vibrating ring into the base of his shaft.

(11) Bonus suggestions to turn him on

Other than the bed, you can do it on top of a sturdy table, kitchen counter, bathroom sink, or a hood of car that is parked in your garage or at a multi-storey car park. If you and your man enjoy being playful together, a game of strip poker can lead to a night of passion. Strip scrabble, strip old maid can be fun too. Both you and him can make a list of each one’s top 5 fantasies, write them down and put them in a box. Next, you choose one and agree to act it out.