The World Won't End When You Get Laid Off

Over the last few years it's become common to run into people that are experiencing some kind of economic hardship.  You don't need me to tell you that people everywhere are losing their jobs as a result of the current recession.  If you're among the many people in this category, you're probably trying to figure out how your going to survive  If you have been fired, laid off, phased out, or cut back, you need to be aware that it's entirely possible to make lemonade when life hands you lemons.

At one point in my life, I landed what I considered to be a dream job.  I was an account manager for an in-house advertising firm in the health care industry.  The job was exactly what I'd been looking for so naturally I jumped at the opportunity to take the position.  However, after just one year on the job, I realized that while I had gained valuable knowledge and useful skills, there would be no opportunity for advancement.  I had no choice but to start looking for another job.  At this point, the recession hit town like a hurricane and the company I worked for laid off a large number of employees.  You guessed right, I was one of the employees that lost their jobs.

The "Fairy Tale" Ends

Believe it or not, getting laid of was one of the best things that ever happened to me.  I wasn't devastated as you would expect, I was exhilarated.  I quickly realized that my job was not what I had expected and it was draining my will to live.  I never seemed to fit in and always felt like a square peg that was forced into that round hole.  I had always thought I wanted to work in a fast-paced corporate environment, but the minute I walked out the front door for the very last time I was met face to face with what had constantly been fighting to get out - it's not me.

I certainly could have said that job wasn't right for me to soothe my wound, to cover my inadequacy.  However, when I really thought about it, I realized a detested working for a boss.  I hated having to wait for an official decision on a matter that needed immediate attention.  I couldn't stand doing busy work that had no real purpose.  Now that I realized this, where did this leave me?  I had a pretty long list of things I didn't want from a job.  I felt negativity begin to creep in and I was afraid I would lose the feeling of exhilaration I was experiencing.

Take Action!

I didn't waste any time.  I started brainstorming what my perfect job would be.  What sort of environment did I want to work in?  What would the perfect job look like?  What kind of people did I really want to work with?  I also took some time and jotted down every single thing I enjoyed doing.  I ultimately reached the conclusion that it would be best if I went into business for myself.  This was something I'd actually been thinking about for awhile and getting laid off provided me with the springboard I needed to take action on my dreams.

For me, a business of my own seemed to be a natural fit.  My friends have always thought of me as the person with all the answers.  I really enjoy helping others and I have a strong belief that the human soul has the strength to overcome any obstacles.  I liked the idea of working for myself and using the day as I see fit.  I had gained the necessary business skills both from business school and on the job.  Now I feel like I will be doing exactly what I was born to do.

Are you in the same boat?

If you've been laid off, downsized, fired, or simply hate your job, it just might be time to get a little creative.  It might sound crazy, but it could be that this is the best thing that has ever happened to you.  Even if you really enjoy the line of work you're in, the condition of today's job market should be enough to make you start thinking outside of the box.  Remember, there's no reason why you have to wait until you are laid off.

You can do exactly what I did.  Reach deep into your core and discover what it is that really makes you tick.  Write down absolutely anything that comes to mind.  Write down everything you enjoy doing - even something as simple as folding clean laundry.  After you've done this, really think about why you enjoy these activities.  If you're having trouble translating your brainstorming into a way to make money, you should consider seeing a career counselor.

Most unemployment offices offer this type of counseling at no cost or you could use the services of a dedicated professional.

People Everywhere are Doing It!

I have a friend that has experience working in a bakery that used that experience to start her own business making cakes to help make ends meet when times got a little rough.  She started making custom wedding, birthday, and other kinds of party cakes.  When she started she had nothing but a stack of business cards and her trusty Kitchen Aid.  She built her business mainly by word of mouth. 

Another friend of mind uses her quirky sense of humor to blog about anything she finds amusing.  Not long after starting her blog she was able to quit her full time job because the earnings from her blog surpassed her salary.  Her business continues to grow and now her husband quit his job as well so he can manage the business end of things.  Now she's able to something she loves and supports her family while she's doing it.

Get the Word Out There

You have to let people know that you're considering taking on a new challenge.  Once you do this you will be making yourself accountable to the people you told and be forced to take action.  This will also help start some old fashioned networking to get your business off the ground.  One more thing, make sure you sound very positive when you tell people about your plans.

Do Plenty of Research

You will have to learn everything you can about the business or industry you're considering and arm yourself with accurate information.  Find out if the unemployment office in your area offers classes, counseling, or tips about starting a business.  You will be able to get accurate information and assistance with getting a small business loan at www.sba.gov.

Make a Plan

While it's possible to start a business without a business plan, having a plan will keep you focused.  Additionally, you will need a good business plan if you want to apply for any kind of business loan.

Go With the Flow

Your main goal should be to find something that you really enjoy doing.  When you combine useful work with something you love, you will get into this thing they call "flow".  You'll know you found what you're after when time flies by when you're working and new ideas keep popping into your head.  When you finally find something that gets you into the flow, you will be anxious to go to work each day.  It's interesting that people that enjoy their work are happier overall.  You should definitely find work that you love to do.